No matter how much the weather has changed today, some things you can still apply, and you will surely succeed as a parent Surely you have heard that familiar sentence from at least one of your parents, grandparents: In my time there was no such thing, I went to school alone, I did everything myself, and the like. Although a lot has changed today, some values "hold water" even today! With these 30 old methods of upbringing, you can't go wrong even today.
1. Be persistent
If you say "you have to stop arguing or go to bed right away", stick to it.
2. Eat together
Can't do it on weekdays? Get together at least for Sunday lunch.
3. Let the children learn from their mistakes
Should chemistry work be submitted tomorrow? Don't do the child's job. Let him understand that one day it may not be you to do it for him. He will learn best from his mistakes.
4. Send the children outside to play
The fresh air never hurt anyone.
5. Establish house rules
It doesn’t matter what their friends ’parents allow. It is your house where your rules apply.
6. Sometimes it's okay to say "because I'm a parent"
You don't have to explain every decision you make to your child.
7. No privileges
Children have to bear the consequences for the bad things they do.
8. Sometimes they have to be bored
Yes, it is the job of the parents to provide the child with food, clothes and all the security. But if they're bored, you don't have to entertain them all day.
9. Sometimes you can have fun without children
Among other things, don't forget the time you adults should spend without children. Organize an outdoor picnic with your husband or go to a romantic dinner. Of course, without children.
10. Establish bedtime
This is very important so that everyone can get some sleep and be more rested in the morning, and not nervous and nervous.
11. If he won't, he won't
If you make lunch and your child is not satisfied with what is on the table, don't get upset. Give him two options: take it or leave it. Let him find another choice only.
12. Teach him respect
Don't let your child have disrespect for you or anyone else. Likewise, children learn from you, so the same is required of you.
13. Teach them good manners
It is very important to teach children how to behave. Teach them to be polite, polite, teach them the rules of etiquette.
14. Teach them to help
Every child in the house can help with something. Engage them and teach them from an early age how important it is for each eye to help with something in the house.
15. Be a good example to them
We have been through this before, but really, you are the best example to your children. Therefore, be careful what you say and how you behave.
16. Don’t let them interrupt adults as they talk
Also, when they talk don't interrupt them. Let them finish the same as they will you.
17. Be a parent, not a friend
You can have fun together, but you need to know when to act as a parent.
18. Cook together
A great way to connect even more, and to teach your child the life skills he needs.
19. Tell them family stories
Show them your photos when you were young, tell interesting stories.
20. Make traditional gatherings
For example, for Dad's birthday, a barbecue is made in a certain place every year ...
21. Let them hang out with grandma and grandpa
It’s good for you and for them.
22. Stick to the sentence "You can't always get what you want"
There are no special treatments. Not even for a birthday. Not even when he did something good. You must not give up.
23. Teach them proper dress
It is very important to teach them, for example, that when they go to a wedding, they should be trained in accordance with the occasion.
24. Don’t forget that you are a parent
When you tell them to clean the room, they have to listen.
25. Trust your instincts
When talking to your child's doctor or school teacher, trust your instincts to help assess the situation and make a decision.
26. Teach them to maintain hygiene
It is very important to teach a child from an early age how to wash his hands properly and how to wash them often.
27. Teach them to respect the elderly (and everyone around them)
This is very important because if they do not have respect for the elderly, they will build a very ugly character.
28. Show them how to help people in need
Volunteer together. Tell the children to help someone in need. Let a child learn from you too. Show him by example.
29. Give them time to play
Kids need to play, but they also need to know when it’s time to play and when it’s time to go home.
30. Teach them to clean up after themselves
At school. In the House. At friend's. In general, in life ...
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