Understanding is the key to an healthy relationship
It is alarming how a lot of people go into a relationship but would be complaining of not getting the loved the deserve, most people easily get into a relationship and some do not go into it so easily, but relationship is relationship we all need the same thing to loved and be love, which is also the issue facing by some people in most relationships.
When i was in secondary school, i could remember my class teacher saying that any relationship that is not beneficial is parasitic, he make it clear that, such relationship is not to be involved in or considered gointo into, so that it would not to be a problem to any party on a long run, he made mentioned of the main thing which we need to make relationship beneficial, which is caring it was in his words that he outlined to my understanding what caring to a person really entails, he said, when you care for someone, you would make that person challenges your challenges, when he cry, you would cry and when he walked and laughed, you would Walk and laughed.
Caring is the energetic substance that builds a strong and reliable relationship, for instance, if someone who claims to loved you heard that, you are not feeling too well and he refused to come see you, concerning your health and how you are doing, it only means, that he doesn't care, because if he really care for you, he would Have come, check up on you and get to know your health status.
But these days, most people are not getting the best they should get in their relationship, why should it be so? Is it that, it is how a relationship should be? or is it a kind of bad luck they have? Is there any bad luck in a relationship? some maybe as a result of work and some maybe as a result of unnecessary daily challenges face by a party can make them not to put in their best in their Relationship.
Another keyboard that can sustained any relationship is understanding, for the fact that we know nobody is perfect, it is advisable to at times overlook our partner's actions and look straight and do not want to know everything that our partner may do for a healthy relationship, it is good if we at times looks straight and do away with thoughts which we may find not contributing to our relationship life, because i once read a story about a man, whose always have problems with his wife, due to her nature of job.
It happens that her wife was a nurse and she at times work overnight, then the husband always complaint about her not been at home and taking care of the children, this went on for quite sometimes and the two party could not cope anymore, which lead to divorce, and they went their separate ways, if only they could look into their problem more and understand themselves they would not have had issues, meanwhile a lot of people out there got married to nurses and doctors and they stll lived happily, why? Because they understand themselves and they put their differences aside for the benefits of their home.
Understanding is really what we need for the comfort and the growth of our homes.
With understanding we can easily heal out wounds, and amends our differences.