I Talked about Toxic Relationship!

Do you feel uncertainty towards your partner? Did you have this feeling like you are strangled?

Well, hello there my dearest readers.👋

You know, its my first time sharing an article about love and relationships, particularly, on the topic, "Toxic Relationship."

Here's the thing, before anything else, I just want you to know, I am not an expert in this field, I'm just sharing my thoughts about it, and what I learned based from my observations and so forth.

So what is this so-called "Toxic Relationship?"

For some people, they merely hard to find out if their relationships towards their opposite sex or lets include LGBT's, were good or the other. There is also a so-called Forbidden Love or Relationship. But for now, lets just focused on this one.

One common reason is that, You love that certain person too much despite everything. As if you can't find anyone else like him/herm But in fact, you can't actually. Maybe the same name but different person and personalities.

A saying goes like this, "Loving someone is a choice." Its your choice. Maybe because you feel that you have butterflies in your stomach when your him/her or your just really in love. We have many reasons for that.

But, is Love really enough?

What if that love might be covered with pains and heartaches?

Can you still guarantee that your relationship remains the same?

The same as what you were, when you were just started it?

Some of you may think, or mostly not. Its depends.

I've made a list of signs that you have entered in the crisis of having a Toxic Relationship. It may not apply to everyone tho.

He/she gets mad at you all of a sudden.

-Even though you are not doing anything wrong that can trigger for his/her anger, all of a sudden he/she gets mad at you even without an acceptable reason to become like that. I say to you, he/she was just making you feel bad that way. And he/she tends to become more suspicious to you. He/she wants to know who else is with you, where were you going, and what you do if he/she was not there. Its definitely make you feel strangled.

He/she treats you unlikely.

-Everytime you two got into a fight, you talk shits. Bad words just came out in each other's mouth, without thinking about each other's feelings at all.

He/she also lies to you over and over again. We have this saying commonly applies for boys, "Before the girl ask you, she already knows the truth." So boys, I know not all of you but it really makes a relationship toxic. And every time that happened, its getting worst and worst.

He/she left you behind.

-You know the feeling of being left out, right? I add it on the list because of this common reasons, when he/she makes decisions even without consulting or acknowledging you as his/her partner. He/she makes you feel that you are unworthy and you don't need to have your stand for it and worst of all, he/she wants you to become more submissive.

So, what can you say?

Vice Ganda once said, "If you really love that person, don't change him, don't own him, just love him."

Here's my thought.

I am a kind of person who easily gets jealous and gets mad. I also tend to be a very suspicious being towards my partner, same is through with him. We had fights, even just for a nonsense issues and reasons. I sometimes throw bad words at him. I know he loves me, and I do the same. Honestly, sometimes, I think of quitting and just break it. You know, its very hard to depend yourself to someone who close their ears and just insisting that you're doing something wrong but in fact, you're not. But eventually, I just ignored what I felt inside, because I love him. You can call me "Martyr" for that.😅

Sometimes, we are too blinded by our love towards them unknowingly that we were just hurting ourselves and even though it gives us struggles. We have different reasons for doing that, right? Some says, "I can't live with him/her." Or maybe, "He/she is my everything." And others, "The time and moments we've shared together might be wasted."

Am I right? Lucky guess, I think.

Let me end this with a saying,

"No relationship is all sunshine, but two people can share one umbrella and survive the storm together."❤️

If you think you can still solve and fight back your storms, then don't think twice, grab the chance and save it.

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