"Changes"

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1 year ago

Happy Tuesday my dear brothers and sisters. (⁠っ⁠.⁠❛⁠ ⁠ᴗ⁠ ⁠❛⁠.⁠)⁠っ How's everyone around here? How's your life been doing?

Sharing my pregnancy journey with you guys has always been a proud kind of act I have done so far. It could be because this dream of mine became a reality for me now. And what makes it considered as a huge blessing for me was the fact that it was a shared blessing by us, Ren and Rhed, which never came in my wildest dream that this will happen to us so soon.

Before this blessing came to us, Rhed made a lot of plans about the future. More on business plans. As a matter of fact, last February this year, we were able to sold out one pig that weighs sixty-six kilos. But the money we gained from that was being used for the previous check-ups I had relating to my pregnancy (expenses for my ultrasounds, vitamins, and other essentials). Another thing that came up was to build a vape shop (originally was his idea before we became a couple again). This was supposedly open at our town but due to unavailability of space (for rent), this wasn't realize yet. Then we came up to this plan of starting our vlogging journey. The reason why I made a YouTube channel and a Facebook page. Before he came home for his vacation, he keep sharing his ideas about making vlogs (e.g. mukbang challenge, travels, and a lot more), but this didn't happen because we give more focus on spending quality time together with the family.

[some memorable time together]

More than that, Rhed also shared to me about this idea of making a farm. But honestly speaking, the thing of having a baby was one of the shared plans that came up to our minds. Well, I told him that we should postpone it first so that the other plans will be realize then, however, he insisted that we should try doing so.

Originally, after we were able to sold out the pig, he told me to buy it another two piglets. But hearing the news about my pregnancy, the plan didn't happen. And here comes this difficult challenge as for the changes...

After hearing out the news about my pregnancy, my parents and Rhed's decided to gather for this so called, "pamamanhikan" but its was not the actual "pamamanhikan" because Rhed was not there. At that time, our parents talked about the things that needs to be done in order for us, Ren and Rhed to be one. Rhed planned out to have our wedding a week or after his younger sister's graduation day, expected to fall on July or August this year. However, talking about coming home, he will struggle for this. He used his whole month vacation last February then. To settle this matter, he requested his supervisor for a work location transfer near in our place which is at Tacloban Toyota Branch. Still, we are not hearing a responds but we are hoping for a positive responds for us to be able to do what needs to be done, especially about becoming his Philhealth beneficiary.

Final Thoughts:

This life changes surely take time, especially for Rhed. Because of my situation, my OB advised me to take extra care of myself, avoid stress as much as possible for the sake of our baby. Rhed is the one providing all my needs financially for the betterment of my pregnancy. And I felt sorry for that because I really want to help him out. At the same time, I am very much thankful that he is really responsible doing all this things for me and for our baby.

That's all for this blog. Thank you so much for your time!

xoxo <3<3<3

TO GOD BE ALL THE GLORY!😇

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oww I was really not around and late for things here hehe.. Congrats opo, yiee sana oll may babay na hehe.

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1 year ago

Well, thank you pa rin at nakahabol ka pa. Charoot. Haha. Welcome back sir Eunoia. Matagal-tagal din nawala.

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1 year ago

Ayaw pa stress mamsh. Kita kos imung tiktok sa reels mamsh. Kahimus nimu tan awon adtoa.

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1 year ago

Lagi Mamsh.

Agii, murag butete nisayaw. Hahaha. Buyag.😅

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1 year ago

Buyag ka mamsh. Ka cute nimu didto bitaw. 🥰

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1 year ago

Thank you kaayu Mamsh. Ikaw napud ana puhon.😘❤️

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1 year ago

I am sure na taking care of yourself and your soon to be baby is enough na kay rhed mo. 💗💗 excited ako mabasa yung mga cravings and weird pregnancy dreams mo hahahaha

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1 year ago

Hopefully ganyan nga po. Hihi. Yun na nga, jusmiyo akala ko kasi same kami ni mama na ayaw sa pagkain.😅

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1 year ago

Bawal muna ang stress kaya all good vibes muna. Maswerte ka din dahil handa rin maging ama ang iyong partner ❤.

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1 year ago

Kaya nga tamang iwas talaga hangga't maaari. Oo nga sis eh, swerte din at responsable siya.

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1 year ago

kaswerte jud nimo sis sa imong pares ky baliktad ta sa time nga nabuntis ko akoa tanan gasto jud oi even pagpanganak nako ako ghapun gasto

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1 year ago

Mao pud bitaw na ahung gikabalak-an sis ba. What if... Pero, dili lagi pwede. Bawal stress. Bawal mag-overthink. Napakita man pud ni Rhed ug unsay ijang responsibilidad as the father of our soon to be baby/child.

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1 year ago

If nakapag-usap na naman ang parents nyo sis, ok na din un ipon na lng muna para sa panganganak mo, pero if nasa older stage pa ang mga parents gusto tlga nila wedding muna bago lumabas ang baby siguro kahit simpleng wedding na lng para lang may blessings kayo.

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1 year ago

Yung parents ko talaga sis gusto na maging isa kami ni Rhed para daw sa formality at yun nga, para walang problema sa bata pag nalabas na soon.

Yan din naman napag-usapan namin talaga. Di na muna yung bonggahan na kasal. Civil Wedding is enough for me, as long as sa kanya ako ikakasal. Ayiieh..❤️

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1 year ago

Kahit simple if ndi na talga mahihintay paglabas ni baby, ayos n yan

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Ang Philhealth din kasi yung nasa priority talaga kasi yung kanya yung gagamitin din naman.

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