Be your own Leading Character My dad always told me **"Be the protagonist of your own story"**. Wise words and always came at times when I was heartbroken or simply because my dad was curious as to why I wouldn't settle for anybody. One time I even dared to say **"I won't be jumping from bed to bed until I find Mr. Right"**. This is because sadly we live in a world where you have to be tested first in the sack and then boys decide if you're worthwhile, well, at least in my case that's what happens, I just don't have luck in that subject. But this is not what today's article is about. Like it happens often, I was thinking about what to write about, I didn't want something sad, nor something reflexive, I wanted something that would allow me to talk about anything different than the subject I've been talking about for the past few day's, so, Google it is, I went and searched and searched and searched. Then I found Buzzfeed's page and got a fun quiz to make: **Are you more of a Main Character, Love Interest or Side Character?** https://www.buzzfeed.com/mikbalatbat/answer-these-questions-and-well-tell-you-if-your-9xe1npis2
**Let's start!** First Question
Answer: The City *I love my town, it's small, it's quiet, it's soothing. But movie-wise, the city it's best. Don't ask me why I think that, maybe in the next question's we'll get the answer.* Second Question
Answer: Romance *I was torn between Comedy because I dearly love to laugh, but I tough of a Love Story and in the big city? Cool!* Third Question
Answer: To find their purpose. *Often we find ourselves not knowing what is our purpose in this life. To have a family, a successful business, to help others, to be alone, anyway, the options are many, but we do not always have the answer even if it is right in front of us. So, a movie where the lead character set out to find their purpose it's worth the trouble.* Fourth Question
Answer: Severe illness *This is because I have one. Well, it's not severe because I don't let it go that far, but it can be, living with pain* ***24/7*** *it's not a cup of tea.* Fifth Question
Answer: Assertive *I try to be assertive, always trying to see the good side of everything, even the bad situations, the painful situations, so this character should be like that.* Sixth Question
Answer: Studio *I want to live in a small place, first, I plan to live alone in the future, second, it's easier to clean!* Seventh Question
Answer: Commitment *There should be an* ***"All of the above"*** *option because all those traits are desirable in a couple, but of all the options commitment is the first one I'd want.* Eight Question
Answer: Energetic *My friends are all like that, they use the Energizer batteries* **π π**! Ninth Question
Answer: Mature *Yes please. No more immature and emotionally disabled man in my life!* **Tenth Question**
**Answer: The main characterβs mind** *We can be our worst enemy...* Eleventh Question
Answer: Well known but I only have a few close friends *That's true, in my circle most people know who I am, but I have few friends, I don't trust easily, and the friends I have, I've had them for a long time.* Twelfth Question
Answer: Loyal *Always, loyalty is key.* **Thirteenth Question**
**Answer: Unique/not basic and not toxic about it** *Comfort before fashion, but with style and flair, although a T-Shirt and some jeans are the best.* Fourteenth Question
Answer: New York *The Big Apple, the city that never sleeps. Awesome!* Fifteenth Question
Answer: Musician *Easy question easy answer.* Sixteenth Question
Answer: Travel *A dream of mine is to travel and visit many counties, try different foods and enjoy wonderful views.* Seventeenth Question
Answer: Dog *I have one, his name is Zeus.* Eighteenth Question
Answer: Yes, and it hurt bad. *Let's leave it at that...* Nineteenth Question
Answer: I isolate myself and work it out alone *That's my first reaction, and if I can't get through it alone I seek help.* Twentieth Question
Answer: Drums *That would be awesome!* The Results!
**Yes, give me some popcorn! If only that were true** **π π** Being the Love Interest of someone else isn't that bad, as long if it's good in all the sense of the word. But in the end, we all are the main characters of our lives, and we alone have the sole responsibility of our happiness. **Go figure, it was a reflexive article, or isn't it?**
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16 comments
you really have the character of a friend, the answer to every question, is your own identity, what is in your heart is said. and I can judge that you have strong integrity. seen from the answer. You don't mess with the choice of heart. I'll tell you a little bit that I am too. your character is good.
Thank you! I wasn't always like I am now. Life has taught me so much, and I'm sure it has some more teachings to give.
We can find excuses in our lives, or we can find health, love, understanding, adventure, wealth, and happiness.Yes, you are right-we are the protagonists of our lives, and we decide our own destiny
That's right dear friend. It's sad ro realise that sometimes we let other to take control of our lives, but I'm glad to know that we can overcome that and take back what is rightfully ours.
We must always take control of our lives, it has happened that I have been used very subtly until I realize that I am trapped. We should not let ourselves be seduced in that way. By the way happy musician's day, keep enjoying your success.
That's hard, getting out of that vicious cycle where you know that you're being used but don't know how to get out. I've been there, and when I did get out I promised myself that I wouldn't give that power again to anyone, and only I have that responsibility. Thank you! I celebrated it with a rehearsal haha the day of "I can't, I have rehearsal" LOL
Oh I love that, and yes you are the love interest. Most of the questions I did guess your answers before I read them Rebeca, that was fun though :)
Haha that means that I'm transparent haha no mysteries, clear as water ππ
haha no, I just can judge characters well π
Haha no kidding! That's nice though, you are a man who can't be fooled easily, and that's a good skill to have β¨β¨
I have managed projects with upto 500 people on them, judging character fast and accurately is important, and I like it:) Although am sure some ladies can still fool meπ€£
Wow, I have managed large groups but not to that extent, however I too have learned to do that, and like you I like it, as I said, it's a good skill to have. Haha sadly I too can be fooled by the dudes π
yes a great skill we have! hehe you getting fooled by the dudes π€£ oh dear!
Haha it has happened in the past, I'm not proud but it's the truth
Well as long as you have learned , then it is called life and we move on Rebeca, onwards and upwards π
Haha true, at least I learned from them and got good anecdotes as well. Not a total lost Lol