Do not ignore your Girl

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3 years ago

It's funny how she puts forth so much effort while you always do the bare minimum. You try everything you can to keep her off your back as she pours her heart and soul into the connection. Is she your girlfriend/wife/partner on life or only a nuisance?

She spends the entire evening getting ready, waiting, and dreaming about seeing you, only to receive a last-minute message from you informing her that you are running late. She sighs, unsure if you'll end up canceling everything again for some nonsense reason.

Even when you do get together, you're always on your phone. Except when you're eating the food she's cooked for you or you're in the mood for sex, you don't seem really interested in her most of the time. If it weren't so darn awful, you'd be laughing at how delighted you are to let her clean up after you. She's not intended to be your mother; she's supposed to be your girlfriend.

She's not sure why she bothers. What is the point of this? She's barely in a relationship with you to begin with. You don't appear to be bothered. You don't appear to be paying attention to her. You obviously do not treat her with the respect she deserves. She is well aware of this.

You're sitting there, playing video games or smartphone games. You have no desire to spend time with her. Even when the two of you are on a date, you don't make her laugh or engage with her, and you never seem to be present.

When was the last time you thoughtfully did something for her? She has no recollection of what happened. It's not like it used to be, when you went out of your way to impress her. You've slipped the mask off completely now that you've got her.

She's not sure why she's even here with you. You don't seem to add anything to her life. The most of the time, you ignore her. She's wondering if you're aware of how close she is to calling it quits with you. Most likely not. You don't appear to be very knowledgeable about anything.

It's as if you think you'll always be together just because you're together now. It's as if you're unaware that the more you neglect her, the more you're simply demonstrating what life would be like without you. Every day, she comes to the realization that you don't truly add much to her life. You don't treat her as a unique individual. You don't have the ability to make her laugh. You don't even manage to bring a grin on her face. She's essentially single; if anything, she feels burdened by you when she could be with a man who would properly treat her.

Every day, she gets a little closer to abandoning you and striking out on her own. And the irony is that you won't even see it coming.

Perhaps you will come to regret not appreciating her presence in her absence.

She shouldn't have to depart to convince you of this. But what if that's all that's required?

You don't seem to alter every time she answers, thinking this time it would be different.

You walk away with a bit of her heart like it's nothing and it's simple for her, but she loses a piece of herself every time you leave. It hurts even more when you think you'll be able to return so easily.

You think back to the good memories and the good conversations and everything that made you smile about the person.

But the part you leave out is all the bad moments that brought you to your knees.

So never ignore her!

As one of the quotes said on one of the post I've seen on pinterest

"No matter how much they love or like someone, woman generally lose interest sooner when they are constantly ignored"

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A reminder for every couples. Based on what I've observe to my sister everytime she was appreciated by her wife with the food she cooked it is something that makes her feel so special. I think Appreciating woman's effort small or big it means a lot to them. Avoid ignoring woman for they are very soft hearted, and then they will feel that they are not loved.

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3 years ago

That should always be for couples. Never let your partner feel alone especially when you're around. Let them feel that they special. Because if you're not, you will face the consequences.

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3 years ago

This is why I never failed to make attention to my wife. 😊

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