Does anyone know what loneliness feels like?
It is as terrible and pathetic as it is mentioned.
But why do people choose solitude?
No one chooses solitude. Loneliness chooses man. The chosen ones are usually the same people. These people are always alone in some way throughout their lives, and loneliness does not leave them alone. It happens so much now that he gets used to living in solitude. Offended at life.
Don't we want to have someone we love who loves us? But in fate, loneliness comes and finds us. Loneliness is our destiny, we are tired of life, of losing all the time and the fear of losing again and again. Maybe that's why we love solitude or just deceive ourselves.,
Sometimes, no matter how much one loves his wife, child, mother or father, he wants to be alone. When you want to be alone once in a while, you feel that your environment has suddenly changed and an atmosphere of anger and resentment prevails in your place.
We all need to allocate some time to ourselves, within certain limits and measures, without neglecting our responsibilities and loved ones. This is what we need to do for our inner child. Have you ever seen a car with an endless gas tank in your life? Even they go to the gas station every now and then to get gas.
Most of us need to spend time alone to clear our minds, measure our thoughts, be with nature, and review our point of view. Sometimes we need to be alone to miss our loved ones and fall in love with them again. We believe in these "automatic thoughts" so much that sometimes we think they are real, thanks to them, many relationships are destroyed.
Although being alone and being alone are considered the same, they are different situations. The feeling of loneliness, on the other hand, is an energy-consuming emotion that causes more pain and distress. It contains a deep inner emptiness, a sense of worthlessness, personal threat, which negatively affects the psychology of the person.
It is associated with inadequate and unsatisfying social relationships. to be alone; It is a process that develops through separation from a source that nourishes us. The resources that feed the person can be external as well as internal. We can give an example to the feeling of loneliness due to external reasons, and the fact that the person who has a satisfactory relationship with his spouse and child feels lonely after a while when he is away from them due to his job.
The person's view of himself can also create internal tension or create stress. Although the person who believes that he has communication difficulties has shared with people, feeling lonely when he is with people because he believes in his own inadequacy is an example of the feeling of loneliness due to internal reasons