Loneliness

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4 years ago

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What does it mean to be lonely?

Well, lonely could be a situation where by a person doesn't really have much friends or anyone to keep them company, so they isolate themselves.

The fact about loneliness is that it can be good in some situations and terrible in many others.

so from my perspective i would say loneliness has more demerits than merits. Why?

well it's quite simple. When you begin to isolate yourself from others after a while it becomes a habit that you would always like being alone and when people even come around you, you start feeling shy for some people why in others you get irritated maybe because they are making a lot of noise or something, but in any case if it becomes a habit it's a problem.

The only good thing about being alone is the fact that for most people it can help them think better and for others it creates motivation and helps them solve problems.

So it's left for you now to take the right part. Always be in the company of other when you can but if you are the type that can't work in a crowded or noisy environment like myself, then you can isolate yourself for that period.

An idol mind is the devil's workshop

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Everything has it advantage and disadvantages, being brings about different thought creeping into your mind, so it's best we don't stay alone for too long

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lilsoftx

4 years ago

Lonely... it's a feeling. You can be lonely within a large group of friends. It says nothing about being alone, only having a few friends.

It's a feeling that slowly eats you and if you are in that situation you better figure out as soon as possible what is wrong. Who or what cause this feeling.

The good news is you can be perfectly unhappy alone, you do not need others for that.

👍💕

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wakeupkitty

4 years ago

When I did read this now, before I saw your comment, I was also thinking about the difference between "lonely" and "alone". It's an interesting fact that some languages don't have that distinction.

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Mictorrani

4 years ago

Apparently, there is not although I am not quite sure about it. What I know is frequently (in my language too) people mix up the words. They automatically think being single and alone stands for being lonely and miserable which isn't true at all.

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wakeupkitty

4 years ago

Yes that is common. But the total absence of distinction reflects the fact that in many cultures one cannot imagine that being alone can be something positive. It just doesn't exist something like that. I suppose that goes also for those individuals who cannot handle the distinction even when it exists.

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Mictorrani

4 years ago

Being alone is very positive and people should practice it more, already start with children. It will help to avoid all those dark feelings and many depressions plus it is good to invest in yourself first and not expect others to provide in your happiness. It's merely something societies force upon people. You are not allowed to be happy on your own and incomplete if you are single.

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wakeupkitty

4 years ago

Couldn't agree more. But try to explain that to someone from a culture lacking the distinction between "alone" and "lonely". They don't know what you talk about.

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Mictorrani

4 years ago

Thank you for this wonderful article. I think everyone must read this beacause. We must also be the ruler of our minds. Good job. Keep on writing

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Gwenie

4 years ago

Loneliness can sometimes be in heart also. Even tough you might be surrounded by many people of so called friends, we can still sometimes feel loneliness

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Cryptonoob

4 years ago

I consider that loneliness represents a form of distancing, either by running away from problems or to think better about ideas about certain situations, sometimes we need to be alone to carry out an internal review of ourselves.

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mgf2394

4 years ago

Its hard to fight loneliness. It realy helps if you have a friend or family to share your thoughts and your problems. Good article. Keep it up ❣️

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Gwenie

4 years ago

Loneliness really hurts... When we spend time with our friends and family, we can share all my feelings, problems.. It removes the dullness of mind...

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Apu

4 years ago

In lonliness you are unhappy and not able to enjoy the advantages of being alone.All you can see and feels is the lack of people and your desires to be with others

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Nishat_Nabila

4 years ago

It is bad to be lonely. Loneliness can instigate someone to do evil things as the person's thought could be awkward. No other person to correct him/her.

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