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This is the 21st century.
If you lack the information you need to take you from where you are to where you're supposed to be, it's because of three things...
But I'll make it four...
You are not a reader: Reading an article is a problem. reading a book is a problem. You struggle to read and your solution is in front of you, hence reading isn't even something you're consistent with. They say if you want to hide something from an African's, hide it in a book and they would never find it. But now it's becoming a global thing... the new generation doesn't like to read anymore.
You need to repent.
You are looking for only freebies: You cannot or you barely spend money to invest in yourself and you feel it isn't really necessary. Please don't let your village people wash your brain for you. Stop looking for or pursuing only free things. Paying proper attention to your destiny will also and will greatly involve paying something from your pocket.
You can give your time and effort but you shouldn't rule out spending your money for value. In fact, it is compulsory. Besides, nothing is free. The freebies you're looking for was paid for by somebody even this platform. Be prepared to make some sacrifices.
So repent!
You don't have a mentor: You don't have a mentor that's already where you desire to be and you're trying to do it all by yourself. - Nah! You need to have one on one access to someone who's where you desire to be in one area or the other. You can even have more than one mentor over certain duration, depending on the area of specialization but let your purpose be accurately defined and let your focus be unbroken.
If you do not have a mentor, I say repent!
Wrong people surrounding you: you are mostly surrounded by people who have nothing to do with helping you grow and achieve your purpose in life and it's your fault. You need to change your mindset and every other thing will follow.
The first thing is having the right mental and spiritual attitude and your approach will be accurate. Do not be sentimental about discreetly detaching from people not adding value to your life. I know you may also wanna grow others but do not let that pursuit weigh you down. Oga, pursue your destiny more and you will attract the right and serious minded people who really wanna change. You are not Elshaddai so don't think you can carry everybody along
Some are recalcitrant and you have to discreetly not let them weigh you down. You need to begin to grow, so surround yourself with more sense.
This is just a few advice I have for now. If any of the above concerns you, I say REPENT!
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