Perfect Value Vs Convenience

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Everyone strives to achieve the best performance to attract the attention of others by prioritizing stunning appearances so as to captivate the audience to witness the sensational action that affects the naked eye to turn right and left following the strains of footsteps so that the mouth produces words of praise for a beautiful and impressive appearance.

Many people say that judgments come from other people maybe this statement has truth because based on rational someone is only able to show something but can't you judge by your own performance? what about the mirror in your room isn't its purpose to be an object of self-assessment?

When you try to show your best, of course you will use various ways so that maximum performance gets perfect ratings from other people. In the world of competition, the most prominent thing is to take the attention of many people so that the value of your life is leveled up.

But sometimes maximum effort by obtaining perfect scores from other people is often not in accordance with the mood, meaning that the actions you take do not bring an atmosphere of comfort.

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  • When you see a gold ring of course you will use it with the aim of being noticed by others but the ring does not fit your finger or in other words the hole of this ring is smaller than your big finger but because you want to look prominent then you try wear it maybe many people will compliment you with the gold ring that is used.

  • But are you comfortable with the torment of your finger because of the pain you feel?

  • You want to look fashionable about the way you dress so decide to wear clothes or let's say super tight jeans and you wear them maybe when many people see your look they compliment the fashionable clothes you wear.

  • But are you comfortable with super tight pants that make you torture to sit, legs and thighs feel tight and difficult to move?

  • You want to have a boyfriend who is handsome or beautiful so you try to date him but in this relationship you spend so much when he asks you to buy all the necessities in his life, you may feel very pressured by the situation but on the other hand you like to show off your girlfriend to so many people that they praise you for having a beautiful or handsome boyfriend.

  • Are you comfortable with this?

  • When you go camping, your friends force you to walk with them for tens of kilometers, but actually you are not able to walk, but because you want to show that you are capable and do not want to be labeled as someone who is weak, you are forced to do it.

  • How about this, does pretending make you comfortable?

  • When you are asked by your parents to go take part in social activities by helping other people affected by disasters while you don't like doing this activity because you are not familiar with the social environment then you tell them not to follow it but apparently the community leader came over to ask you follow it because you feel embarrassed by the arrival of the leader so you follow the social service.

  • Do you feel disturbed by this so that your heart is not comfortable doing social activities?

Those are some examples that often occur in life, sometimes life feels tormented by circumstances, but because you want to look tough, the pain and discomfort force yourself to smile when in fact you have been holding back the feeling to come out in a depressed state.

The element of compulsion often makes life tormented just because it wants to reap praise from others so that routine activities do not feel the wisdom because they have lied to themselves.

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Acting tough to situations around us even at our lowest point is what makes us strong humans, this is a story of myself.. anyways I'm new here and it's nice meeting you

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2 years ago

I applaud the way you express your different point of view. Do all the effort and work to make you grow, I hope you succeed and keep working hard on my new friend's writings. Welcome

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2 years ago

Thanks you so much

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2 years ago

Excessive consumption always has negative repercussions. I believe we should avoid doing it frequently and instead focus on doing what is necessary to appear normal.

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2 years ago

The concept of imaginative thinking and it is true that the reality of life often makes people leave the truth not according to what they actually feel.

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2 years ago

This is a typical example of the world we live in now. A lot People posing fake things at the realm of uncomfortability just to show off or get accolades. The social media has triggered so much about this

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2 years ago

the current reality is very worrying so that it triggers people to make things that are not real so that it makes other people confused to see which situation should be believed and not.

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2 years ago

I like how you pointed these like those. Yeah, sometimes we suffer from our own choice because we thought following the trend will make us better. However, it takes a toll on how comfortable we are using or wearing them.

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2 years ago

The obstacles now have provided evidence that the reality of life does not match the image that appears because it seems as if social media has become a place to complain about everything to convince others to believe.

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2 years ago

I felt like you are referring me with this piece of yours my friend. Hehe. But the points you have there is quite relatable. I can't explain it longer than this because I might give you a whole article if I did that. Lol. But you know actually what I meant to say. :)

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2 years ago

I can understand what you are saying now because I have read and followed some of the articles you have shared. I feel that all of these are ways and expressions of the heart that honestly come from the real heart. I know and understand my most beautiful friend.

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2 years ago

And now you are flattering me, huh? Hehe.😅 Thank you for being one of my good advisers my dear friend. Thank you for always tuning in my life dramas. 😁

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2 years ago

I'm proud because you are a great woman that's what makes me always intense with all your personality. I like the way you make audiences stunned with real things you share based on how you feel. always be a good friend from time to time, God bless

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2 years ago

Well maybe if we could see each other personally, we really be good friends. 😁

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2 years ago

Never do anything your mind isn't into because at the end, you'd be the only one feeling the pain. Instead of trying to please others, acknowledge your own feelings too.

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2 years ago

right and I really agree because every negative action will get a problem that will harm someone. Basically a life full of lies in the end all will be revealed even the impact is very worrying.

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2 years ago

Seconded!!

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