It is easy to advise people to stop thinking about their past and move on to their bright future. But even though, people know this fact , they still find it a lot more difficult to forget their true love of their lives (especially their first love!). If you put yourselves in their shoes, you would understand the amount of pain and sorrow they are going through right now.Unless we are in the same boat like them, we can never understand their life.
Slowly, they have to give up a loved one in their lives who is very dear to them and this is truly difficult and it is time consuming process.It is easy for people in the society to suggest them but very difficult for them to get out and start a new life all over again.If any of such kind of people are suffering right now and are there in this community, my prayers go to them and I hope God brings the best life and he/she charts the best plan for them. I have been through this experience myself and it is very difficult to get out of that situation and move on to future. The best learning in life is to love yourself truly and fervently so that you can take care of others in this world. In order for us to contribute significantly in other's lives, we need to love and respect ourselves deeply for our well being and even for the well being of others. Live each day of your life as if it is a gift. Never stop learning new things in life and bad experiences help shape up our life in positive way and make us very strong. This is the power to detach our soul and power to let go from them. Take care and have fun!