LOVE yourself

L - learn about yourself

• You are the only person who knows yourself the best. Learn and discover new things about yourself every day. Try every skill you can think of; arts and crafts, music, dance, technical skills, and the like. You will be amazed by things you thought you could not do. Explore every crooks and cranny of your physical, emotional, and spiritual body. If you do this no one else can tell you who you are. No word ever thrown to you will ever matter anymore. Insecurities will fly away with the air of inner peace replacing it.

O - own your mistakes

• If things don't go as well as planned and you make mistakes know that it is inevitable for us human beings. Failures and disappointments are there for us to learn and take new steps toward change and development. If you take our mistakes as our own, we wouldn't need to blame others for every small mishaps in our lives. If we know how to accept our wrong decisions the no one can tell us what and what not to do.

V - value your whole being

• You are you and you are special. No one else will love you and value you better than yourself. You will come to realize that to lobe yourself completely you have to love even the parts of you that you hate. Love every insecurity. Know that there is value even in the most unexpected places. If you value yourself well enough, it will reflect to everyone and they will be afraid to treat you any lesser than you treat yourself. You are a unique human being that deserves more than you expect. Believe that you are priceless.

E - evaluate your own progress

• Like schoolwork we are given tests in life that will teach us lessons that we need to learn. With this lessons we grew and developed to who we are now and will grow to who we will be. We should learn to assess and reflect on ourselves with every little progress we made. Every step forward counts. Like teachers, we should reward and appreciate victories and success by treating ourselves and be happy. Likewise, we should learn when to say no and direct ourselves towards the right path if we evaluate our progress going down hill or taking a left turn.

Always remember! We are in control of ourselves and our lives. We alone have the remote to steer ourselves to the outcomes, and dreams we have.

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