Saturday. June 4, 2022

Many Cheating Issues are now spreading all over the internet. Especially with our Filipino Celebrities. These are almost perfect relationships that the people admire, but only end up in separation because of third parties. As a follower, it’s sad to see people you admire just end up breaking up their good relationship as a couple. But honestly, sometimes it seems like it's normal for celebrities to have an issue like this. Some of them seem to be just changing their old clothes with the new ones they are collecting. It's a pity that these women are just suddenly replaced by the people they love instantly.

Here are just some celebrities and internet sensations that I admire the most but ended up breaking up because of third parties.

Paolo Contis - LJ Reyes

These are my idols ever since. I admire Paolo and how he accepted LJ and his son to Paolo Avelino. He was the one who raised the child and he did not consider it different from him but he considered it his own child, and he and LJ also had another child. A very cute and smart little girl. Their relationship also lasted six years. Until the year 2020, everyone was surprised at the breakup of the two. Paolo did not directly admit it but it is clear and there is a lot of evidence that he already had someone else which is Yen Santos.

Zeinab Harake - Skusta Clee

Damn, I'm not a fan of Skusta but I'm a big fan of Zeinab. I admire this beautiful Youtube Sensation since from the start. This is probably the saddest break-up for me, well actually I'm not sad about Skusta ruining their family but I'm sad about Zeinab because everyone knows that Zeinab is a very kind, smart, and very beautiful but this ugly duckling Skusta Clee still managed to fool her. Skusta cheated on him once before but she still forgave him despite his ugly appearance and behavior, all because Zeinab really loves him. They even had a baby right away when they got back together and recently they had a 2nd baby but because of Skusta cheating on her, Zeinab suffers a miscarriage and that's the saddest part. Not only Zeinab suffers from the cheating issue but even the baby. It really hurts even for us who are just followers of Zeinab, imagine that a child died inside her mother’s womb just because of her own father’s cheating. He left his family just because of a woman which is Aira Mae Lipata who is a Tiktok sensation.

Carla Abellana - Tom Rodriguez

I also witnessed the relationship between these two and how they fell in love with each other. They dated as a couple for 7 years before they decided to get married. But recently there have been speculations that they are separated already because of a third party. Not sure yet what and who the real reason is but Carla is said to be preparing for their annulment. It's unfortunate that they also spent a few years together as a couple, which is almost perfect but will also end in annulment after they got married just recently.

Kylie Padilla - Aljur Abrenica

The outcome of this relationship is also sad. I really admired the fairy-tale-like wedding they had before. A wedding that all women dream of. I admired Aljur for giving Kylie the best Wedding of all (for me). He treats her like a Queen. They had two children, and I can say that they almost had a perfect relationship, but then all those times that they were happy together, the relationship I admired also ended in a break-up. And the reason is that Aljur has a third party as well.

Moira Dela Torre- Jayson Hernandez

Jayson Hernandez and Moira Dela Torre aren't my idols but I did admire them too for being one of the best singers and composers of this century. I also admire their relationship which started as being best friends that ended up in marriage. But then suddenly they parted ways after three years of marriage. Just recently Jayson admitted his mistakes over Moira, he confessed that he had been unfaithful to her during their marriage. Someone said it's not totally a third party but he did pay someone to make love with him since Moira didn't have time for him.

It is sad to think that there are men who do not know how to be content with their partners. Let's just say that women really have some flaws, but are their flaws enough to be a reason for them to cheat? I guess not, that mindset seems so wrong. For me, that only means one thing, they don't really love their partner. Because if they really love their partner, they should talk about it properly to work out the family they have built. Not because women just made a mistake or have some flaws, they'll fool around right away. Marriage is not working that way. When you marry a woman, you must be fully determined to live with her in whatever behavior she may have. You must be willing to stand up and fight for your responsibility and love for her and your family. You must be willing to put up with whatever attitude she has. You should be prepared to fix any problems that may be hindering your marriage. Separation and cheating are not the answer to fix the problem because in the end both of you will be hurt eventually, especially your children. Cheating over a perfect relationship is a choice, not mistake. You chose to ruin your family than figure things out to improve your relationship with your partner.

For those men who cheat.

Don't enter into a relationship that you know you can't stand and fight for. Especially do not marry a woman if you know in yourself that you can easily be tempted by another woman. Your partner or wife does not deserve your cheating. Marry the girl you really love and you can't leave no matter what happens. Choose the woman you can't afford to see hurt. Because women should be loved and not hurt. Building your own family is not just a game. That you'll just leave them when you're tired. What they need is a head of the family, who will never leave them and will continue to love and fight for them through whatever trials come your way.

For those women who cause men to cheat.

Just to be fair, I know you are also just victims of men who cheat. I know they are just using you too. They just make you depend on nothing and will hurt you in the end. So if you really love yourself and you know that a family can be ruined because of you, you should stay away and avoid a man with a family. But if you really intend to destroy the family then you must need to change while it's not too late. You are a woman and you also deserve true love, love that is only for you, not from the one you are committing adultery with, just to say that someone also loves you. Please think first about the family that you can ruin, especially the future of their children. It's a big mistake to love a married person, I know that because I went through that too. Don’t enter into a relationship where you know in yourself that you will also be the loser in the end.

For those women who have been cheated on.

I know it's hard, but please don't give up, just keep on fighting. Everything happens for a reason. God will not give you such a trial that you cannot pass. Maybe it's also one of his ways to keep you away from the wrong person. You deserve to be happy with someone else who deserves your love more. Also, do not think that you made a mistake or you failed in your relationship, so your partner cheated on you. They just don't know how to be content and people like that don't deserve someone like you. Just keep going. Time will come, you'll also meet the person who deserves you more, the person who will never leave you and will never fool or cheat on you. Someone who will stay with you no matter what.

"Love is really playful and it's all up to you how you handle it."

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