Hey There Sis, Move On

Hey sis, how are you after he finally decide to leave you? Or is there really a need for me to ask that question because I am pretty sure that I already know the answer just before I asked that question. Yes, YOU ARE NOT OKAY, no one will be okay after being left. It is okay to not be okay, always remember that because life is never that stable, there are upscand there are defenitely downs. Every feelings that a person feels are always valid.

Yes, I know that you are hurt. It is okay to be sad. Cry all you want if you feel like crying. When you can no longer hide the emotions that you have inside, then let it burst. After that, you may feel some relief.

No, do not expect him to be back. After all the heartaches that he gave you, you still want him back? Yes, I know, you love him to the moon and back, that you still come to see your future with him but remember that from the moment he left you, he do not deserve you.

Remember that he was the one who entered in your life, while your life is just quiet, there he suddenly came into your life without asking him to. Yes, he made you happy and so you are. But it is just difficult to accept that he still have the gutts to leave you after all right, that well in fact, he made the first move, you just fell into him. Yes, he was there to catch you the moment you fall but leaving you in the end?, that's very difficult thing to deal with.

Know your worth girl, do not chase him. Yes, it is okay to fight for him but if you feel that it is not working out or he is ignoring you then leave him alone. Make him realize what he had lost. At first, he will really ignore you because that's the first thing a guy will do after breaking up with someone. There moving on process is reciprocal compared to girls.

Sis, you are the one who won even if he initiated the separation. He may think that he won but he didn't. Just believe that you didn't lose, know your worth. Prove to him that he made the wrong decision. Instead of just doing nothing, why not improve yourself? Do something that will make him regret of the things he had done to you. Do that for yourself. Transforming to a better person is the best revenge. Most of the guys, regrets that they left the girl whom they have loved the moment they see that the girl they left are already okay / have totally moved on. As long as you know that you did your part, that you did your best, I am pretty sure, it will always be his lost. He will never find someone like you, that he will be pressured to meet someone who will be exactly like you but he won't. There will come a time that he will miss you, that he will long for you but from the moment he will experience that, you are no longer at the place where he left you. And I want that from that moment, he will see you happy with someone else or if you have not yet found someone new then I want that you will no longer want him back the moment he want you to be back in his life. That's the best revenge.

Just do not be too harsh in yourself. In the process of moving on, there will be times that you will okay but sometimes, suddenly there will be time that you feel not okay. There will be moments that you will overthink causing you sleepless nights. But take care of your health please, because people who are undergoing heartbreaks may have a tendency of not having an appetite causing them to skip meals. There are also people who can not have a good sleep. Just take care of yourself. You are just the only one who will do that for yourself. It is okay to lose someone but do not ever ever lose yourself.

In order for you to be okay, or to start moving forward, first, you need to let go of the past. Acceptance is the key for you to move forward. The moment you have accepted everything, that will be the time you appreciate life.

Just always be true to yourself because the more that you are faking how you feel, the longer the healing process. Life is always beautiful despite of the bad things that are happening in our life.

But hey sis, can you do me are favor? Never let pain to stay in your heart, please? No, I am not saying that you need to be okay as soon as possible. What I am trying to say is, look on the brighter side. Think that something better will happen in the future that is why you need to experience what you are experiencing right now for you to be able to appreciate if what will happen in the future.

One day I am pretty sure that there will come a time that you will look back at the times you are down and thank that it happened to you. Better days are coming. Just trust the process. Always remember that we do not deserve a man who once decided to leave us.

For those guys who had read this and is in a relationship right now, before you break your woman's heart, think a million times. Imagine a life without them first.