My Personal story this week
September 24, 2022
Greetings to all, hope everyone is doing healthy and fine.
As we are entering the modern world we forgot the importance of every relationship. what relationship need? how we can work on them. How we can live a peaceful life?
Do parents and children have a strong relationship among themselves? why do children start hiding things from their parents? Why parents don't trust them? Why parents don't give them chance to prove themselves
Either you have to choose a carrier for yourself you don't have a free hand to choose what you want to become in your life.
I am a part-time tutor and I like teaching I have 3 new students they are brothers elder one in class 3, the middle one in class 2, and the younger one in class pg. Just by judging them from their classes, I imagined them to be innocent as a kid but they are far away from kids they have a stan mentality, they lie to their school teacher, their mother, and the home tutor and they came to me that why they are telling a with everyone. You should counsel them. But I observe that their mother is a lier and they are learning from their household and just one day I completed their school work she called me at 12:30 am just to insult me that I did not insist her children in completing their homework without proof she just wants to release her frustration so she accused me.
And I am wondering where is the teacher's respect. if parents don't respect the teacher children will never respect them.
I just share with my family that I am stressed about this issue because this is not the first time she did this and you believe my family said to me that
you are egoistic
all the parents are the same
what's the issue
you just focus on making money that's important
I told them that I cannot tolerate that much insult as a teacher but they said you will never do anything in life.
After talking to my family I should be relaxed I become self-conscious that I am overreacting I think I am not because I am tolerating this for over 2 months.
And recently I was offered to do a counseling job and my parents I talked with them and they mocked me that I cannot handle one parent how will I handle many parents? Instead of advising me they became disappointed that I cannot do anything in life and I think that's the reason why children start distancing themselves from their parents.
It's easy to mock the children and discouraged them but it is difficult to guide them on how you can handle this situation.