They say, the real journey begins after college life. The moment you step outside from the school life, it means you are ready to face the real world. For almost 16 years of studying, you can finally own the golden diploma. But we cannot hide the fact that there is an existing issue about choosing paths— career discrimination. An unresolved problem in our society that should really be stopped as soon as possible.
People think that if you attain education, there is a better life waiting for you. It is somehow true. Opportunities will come along your way if you have enough background about the specific practice. But what others do not realize there is a bigger world outside those fields. Chances are given to those who are eager to try other profession that others think are not important. The dilemma we are pointing out has an effect not only to some areas but to the world generally. Let me share an encounter I had witness with my own eyes.
I had a close friend of mine who really is into arts. He likes drawing stuffs, his paintings are indeed unique. He has his own painting techniques that I had never seen before. In other words, arts is where his heart belongs. However, his parents are not okay with it. They rarely show up on awarding, recognitions, because my friend always win the contents he joins at school. We served as his support system as much as we can so that he feels that his works are great. We are proud of him even though not everyone appreciates his masterpiece.
When he was about to enter college, automatically, his first choice was something related to arts. He took an entrance exam in a state university, and was planning to take advertising in public relations. Since he loves creating art through distinct ideas, that course would probably fit him. But he did not had the freedom to choose his career. His parents forced him to take a business related course, without asking if it was okay with him. Of course, my friend really wanted to pursue his passion. But he did know how. He was even warned by his parents, that if he chose the art field, he will not be supported and should support himself to get the diploma. He did not have choice, so he ended up taking the business course.
For the first three months, he tried to get along with the wave. He attempted to like the subjects, even though he really found it too hard since he was not that focus on the related subjects back then in high school. In the middle of the semester, he lost the urge to go to school. For him, it is useless. Do not get him wrong, he loves his parents to the point that he cannot disobey their commands. Even though he is not happy with those decisions, he still got to do it for their family's sake. But he realized that he could still be a great son and choose what he wants for himself. Nervous yet he pushed through—he had a heart-to-heart talk with his parents.
In full honesty, he told them that he really wanted to pursue arts. He knows that he can do well in this sphere. He also promised to do his best if he will be given a chance. Turned out, his parents allowed him. It was indeed the happiest day of his life— having the chance to finally choose for his own good. I can say that his college life was a blast. He graduated, and got a stable job. And he did not forgot to become grateful of his parents, until now he is paying their efforts back. Not in an obligated way, but as a thankful son who was granted with his one and only wish—to freely do art.
How I wish, we do not degrade other career paths. Specially those who are in writing, film, art and media. As an amateur writer, I often hear the words "there is no money in what you are doing". And personally, I do not get affected. Because I know to myself that I do this out of love. This is where my heart belongs and I do not owe anyone in choosing what I think is the best for me. But that does not mean we should tolerate career discrimination. May we all respect each and everyone's decision, and let them be happy alone.
May this serve as a reminder for you —do not hesitate to do what you love.
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happy reading!
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