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Words For My Inner Self(Mirror)

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1 week ago

I want to tell myself that-

As I look at the mirror and saw my own reflection. It suddenly came to my mind and got me curious. If I can have a chance to talk to my inner self what will I tell her. It's just a random thought. okay.

Do you also talk to yourself when you are alone? When you're in the bathroom, at your room? It's like your mind is talking to your heart and they keep arguing on who is right and who is on the wrong side. I always do that with my self everytime hahahaha. Am I weird now?

We all have many things we want to tell ourselves. Words that put a definition of comfort only our inner self can explain. Specially if we don't have the courage to tell other people. Or if we don't hear the words we want to hear from them. May it be a compliment,judgement,sarcasm,premonition,etc.

So I made a list of what I want to tell myself. It will be the first time I will voice out what I want to tell honestly.

I want to tell myself:

Don't pretend to be okay.

That would be my first sentence to you.

Don't ignore yourself. You are worthy just as you are. Why let doubts, frustrations, heartaches, disappointments, sorrows take over you? You are as strong as rock.Don't ever forget that. You got swayed but you never fall hardly.

Yes. You build strong walls around you to guard you from being hurt over and over again. You have been in so much suffering before. You were judge with your actions and you faced the consequences because of it. You just let them ruin your reputation but you never cared as long as your child is safe.

Be proud that you raise your child alone.

Being a single parent will never be a sin and a worthless job. Do not count yourself as very low and dirty rag just because of the people talking behind you about how miserable life is taking care of a child alone and let the father have his way and find another family that could suit his expectations which he didn't see in you. They don't know the real story so don't mind them.

Just because people tend to judge you by your status doesn't mean your different.You always think of negative things. Don't think that the world hates you. And don't look down on yourself please.

Be open to everyone and start communicating.

You don't seem friendly at all. You use harsh words because you want to mask your intentions on wanting to have a true friend. Some people might misunderstand you because of that. They might thought your very self-centered and doesn't care at all because you use unwise words to them. The conviction you get from being like that will be worse in the future but try to counter it with actions of care and appreciation a little bit. Don't be savage all the time.

Be insensitive sometimes.

Insenditive in a good way okay?You keep complaining that they are very harsh and judgemental but your doing it on yourself also. Try to loosen up a little bit. Try to attack them with kind words or words of wisdom.

Love and Respect yourself more.

Most people call you bitter with the way you see life being alone. I know you don't want to marry and I understand that. Don't be in the darkness of your past. You keep blaming yourself because you are the main reason why your son doesn't have a father but it's you also who has been hurt.

CRY

You can cry yourself out. Don't be ashamed to let those tears fall freely. We all have weak days or bad days and it's okay to let it out by crying. You are more than enough always know that. Taking it all in silence is very hard and you've come a long way ever since. You accept failure and faced it. Cry, Cry.Cry until you feel at ease.

Lastly

SMILE

People tend to misinterpret you because you rarely smile when you are with people whom you don't recognize. Make your smile your weapon in life. You had a son who loves you a lot. All the more reason to smile. You're very lucky that your son cherished you the most.

Please, tap your back and say "I did well" because you really did well.You are a strong woman and you are amazing.

Fin.

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Ako din. Ganyan ginagawa ko. Palagi kasi ko sensitive. Alam mo yun sis pagka may narinig ako sa ibang tao, subra naapektuhan ako. Nagiging sinungaling ako sa sarili ko. Kahit di ako ok, pinipilit maging ok.😔

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1 week ago

ganyan din ako ..madali masaktan at hirap maka move on huhuh

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1 week ago

Ako Noona, I'm talking to myself always, kinakaltukan ko nga sarili ko minsan lalo na pag may nagawa akong kapuhangan, naiinis ako sa self ko nga. Mahirap din kalaban ang sarili ee di mo alam minsan sino ang mas susundin, puso o utak? Mahal ko o mahal ako? Ay chorr pala tong part na to, ahahaha.

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1 week ago

hahahah sagaw ka talaga kahit saan baby gerl!! yan din nga..minsan talaga nagtatalo sila at ikaw na magiging referee

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1 week ago

You are a strong woman.I am also like this, looking to myself in the mirror, talking to myself.

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1 week ago

most people do I guess...

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1 week ago

I also talking to myself po when I'm alone haha. There are times na kinocompliment ko sarili ko o kaya naman pinagagalitan ko, parang timang lang haha. Basta yun, nagrereflect din ako sa mga nagagawa ko. It's fine talking to yourself naman as long as may magandang outcome, wag yung parang baliw na hahaha.

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1 week ago

hahhaha iba na yun pag parang nababaliw na tayo...ibang issue na yun talaga

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1 week ago

So you're a single mom.. Galing naman.. Hirap magpalaki ng anak mag isa.. At about sa inner self.. Makakausap naman natin. Hndi nga lng magreresponse yun 🤣 nakakatakot na yun. Biro lng. Cguro kelangan ko gawin yang be insensitive in a good way.. Am sometimes a mick that doesn't thnk of what other people will say about my opinion.. (Kasi nga opinion 😅)

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1 week ago

ywa maam..mahirap pero fulfilling naman po.

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1 week ago

Madame? Are you there? Hehe As I said madame I'm your fan churss ginalingan mo talaga sa pag narrate gap😊😁 Kaso makahilak mn pud tag Popcorn nimo madame uyy😅

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1 week ago

hahaha naghilak sad gani ko while ga buhat ani pre hahah

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1 week ago

Konsensiya c.e ko nimo madam kay pa bati2 man kas imo article😅🤣

Keep fighting Prague ta madam just go with the flow of life😊

Maayong. Buntag nimo dha madam😊

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1 week ago

hahahaha mao jud pre go with the flow lang jud

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