We must eradicate bullying

<<Respect is the basis of a good person and obviously it starts with the values ​​that are instilled at home>>

It is incredible how evil, the negative spreads and takes over people, especially when there is no empathy for the other human being, for their feelings and for their emotions, it is even more incredible that it happens in little ones who until now are learning and developing in life, it is evident that there are ruptures in their values ​​and in their upbringing, given that as guides we must mainly teach that love is the basis of the world, that they must act based on love and of course respect, always thinking of doing good and never harm anyone, because although many deny it, words are a source of power to break the minds and hearts of others who are not strong at all, we must accept that there are strong, not so strong and vulnerable people who obviously can interpret actions in a fatalistic way, therefore we must be cautious, we must teach our little ones to build and not to destroy, because there is no greater gratification than supporting and being part of the project. Other people's accident from a good perspective, always avoiding being the villains and the promoters of damage and misfortune in other people's lives, especially other beings who are completely innocent.

School bullying is any form or sign of abuse and can occur from verbal, under words full of hate and violence that obviously affect psychologically, to physical violence and abuse that obviously violate the comprehensive well-being of any person, whether adolescent, child and even adult. , is clearly produced by students who obviously do not know the extent of the damage that can be caused by such actions and behaviors that can have a certain time and even escalate to the point of bullying even through social networks, we see here a negative aspect of why our children they should not have social networks unless they are monitored and under strict inspection, we do not know if our children are being victims or on the contrary they are being victimizers, but obviously it is in our hands to control these situations if we are vigilant, if we constantly advise them and we guide them, if little by little through their age range l We show that it is not right and we verify with facts the adverse effects caused by both experiences and that they can obviously trust them as guides and parents to seek and find solutions if they are being victims or, on the contrary, find ways to eradicate those negative behaviors that lead them to be victimizers.

Informing ourselves, getting involved in the lives of our children is the key many times to avoid misfortunes, we must give them and grant them a vote of confidence because many times we are careless by not paying them and granting them real attention, in my country Venezuela lately there have been several cases that they have been virilized by the nuances of the facts, especially that of an adolescent who decided to end his life by throwing himself on a platform, a subway track because he had autism, his classmates did not empathize, they were not respectful and even his teachers were promoters of the fact because they were not able to understand this child either, who came to his case to mention it to his mother and did not pay attention either, for at least a week it is said in the information that I managed to read that the minor did not appear in school because they continually messed with him, obviously doing him psychological damage that led him to end his life in the most tragic way possible and just like the many others around the world who unfortunately are suffering similar situations and see no other viable solution than to end their lives because the people around them who should accompany and support them unfortunately do not fulfill their role, being parents is more what to say I am an exemplary father, being parents is getting involved in the life, development and processes of our pupils, being parents should be a very serious decision because it deserves all our attention, time and love to guide the process of a new being that evidently he did not ask to come to this world, we grant him that opportunity, therefore we must be responsible, integrating values ​​and trust so that when they feel danger they do not limit themselves to expressing what they feel, but instead they communicate what they feel.

Today is the day against bullying, a day that should be celebrated every day and should be a reminder for all those who have children in their care because many times they prefer to remain silent because they feel threatened, therefore, below I have gathered a few characteristics to easily identify if our children are being or are victims of bullying or better known as Bullying;

-Changes in mood and behavior, especially when they were open or outgoing and from one moment to another they become totally withdrawn and introverted children who are afraid to say a word.

-As I said before, their confidence and self-esteem are affected, therefore we must be alert, we must constantly remind them that they are courageous, that in fact all human beings deserve respect and love above all things.

-They are children who basically don't feel like living and therefore have little motivation to carry out their daily routine, to study and to go to school, since they feel worthless by not knowing how to manage the mistreatment they suffer at the hands of inconsiderate people.

Thank you very much!