Manipulation is subjective everything depends on the context in which it is used

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We are people built on the basis of many aspects, among them the influence of others is one of the most outstanding given that it happens especially when we are attracted by what they believe or what these characters have done with their lives, it is a natural influence , obviously we feel captivated but when they are people who try to grab our attention abruptly, we feel that we should completely ignore them, since deep down we identify and are aware that they intend to manipulate us to change, by analyzing we can deduce and conclude that manipulation is a very subjective subject since it can be used to do something positive or on the contrary those who become experts in the art of distorting reality, also do it in a negative way, the response of the human being to Feeling outraged with this art is basically rebelling, because they are people who do not analyze and think about our well-being for the contrary. Rarely they only seek personal satisfaction, over time we learn to flee from this kind of people, we learn to avoid everything that does not promote peace.

But in life there are many good and bad things, life is full of multiple natures, just as if it were a coin, we learn that today it can be bad but tomorrow it can surprise us by giving a supremely radical and positive change, the same happens with manipulation, since it has two faces, it is a tool that we all have but obviously it is used depending on people's conscience, because just as the world has its influence on us, we in one way or another do it with Therefore, analyze and enter into introspection processes to define what we are contributing and if it is really helping, it should be a priority as well as a responsibility, because we all want the best and for this we must also give our best, by integrating our habits, customs, tools and beliefs in life any type of persuasion or better expressed manipulation is also necessary to think about others, think about how they can influence Let our actions and words go into it, many do it without first sitting down and analyzing the pros and cons, many times it can work out well but in others it can send a negative message to people who are not trained or are simply vulnerable.

We are witnesses that harmful manipulation basically uses fear as its main weapon or tool, not only this but also coercion and in many cases threat, positive manipulation instead seeks to persuade people based on empathy and respect, since it is mainly used to help those who are a little blind, those who have certain wrong views of the world that unfortunately does not allow them to evolve, proving that they are wrong with endorsements, arguments, information and words of encouragement, because many deep down they know that they are in a somewhat strong and negative situation but they stay because they are afraid of leaving the precious comfort zone, an area where everything is beautiful as far as it goes but we are withering and suppressing the best years of our lives or our precious time that we could well be investing in overcoming everything unfavorable and harmful in our lives, on the other hand it is evident We have been persuaded in a favorable way in our lives, especially by our parents in the parenting stage, when we thought that they forced us to do certain things, but really, in the end, especially in these stages of adulthood, we realize that thanks to everything they they did to instill in us really productive values ​​and habits today we are great people.

Other great examples in addition to the family environment in our childhood, is when we grow up, in the stages where we are learning more about the world, in stages where our mind is truly forging our character and personality based on our essence, stages where we are meeting people almost daily , stages where we first seek to fit in, therefore we are a bit selective and we only let ourselves be carried away by those who are similar to us, those who are practically our safe zone, it is not bad but if we must diversify, we must get along with anyone, we must learn to socialize with everyone, they are aspects that we will affirm when we reach certain ages a little more advanced, where we will also acquire the knowledge that, although we are different and diverse, everyone has something good to offer us and even more so if they cross our path, because basically positive persuasion leads us to obtain extremely beneficial agreements for us and also for the other apart, because basically both can be beneficial.

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