Even when you don't see it, destiny takes care of taking you on the right path

Sometimes we insist on going down paths that lead us nowhere. That was my case for a while, I'm going to put them in context a little bit. I was never clear about which path to choose in terms of profession in my first stage of high school I have to admit, I was very confused and it is understandable at that stage, where we give more importance to meaningless things than to those that really matter and contribute things positive to our lives.

For a long time I was rambling, as they would say here in Venezuela from the timbo to the tambo, I was aware that I would have to choose and decide soon but I didn't give it much importance either, many times I wanted to be a social communicator, others a doctor, an architect but I never made up my mind, anyway One day in my second year of high school I met the one who became my best friend during all that school time and even today we are still very close friends. She was very determined to study dentistry and for a long time that desire infected me to the point of saying that that was what I wanted to do with my life.

I even took many courses, particularly I think they are one of those things that we young people have to do to be able to decide, in dentistry I did dental assistant and hygienist and the truth is that I loved that world I would never deny it, working even at that time for a long time in a dental office where I learned a lot about dentistry and its processes but I also understood and developed more the sense of responsibility, the good management towards the public because I attended people and therefore I was wise and also from past experiences that I would never take my problems to my workplace, on the contrary, my problems and concerns stayed from the door to the street, because I was very responsible and professional when treating patients, being very courteous and kind.

So I was more convinced of wanting to do more, however here in Venezuela in the last year some procedures are done to be able to enter the universities, in which you can enter 5 professions that are of your choice in addition to in different parts of the country. To please my mother, I offered at the universities closest to the state where I live, it should be noted that it was also an average and mine, although it was not bad because I was 18, did not go to study dentistry. Obviously it was a bit hard at the time to know that I had not been chosen to study what I thought I wanted so much at that time in my life, so I had a time of mourning to accept and let go, and then rethink my future. It should be noted that I was selected to study Social Communication but it was not something that I really wanted to do, therefore for me at that time it was not a complete option.

For a month that I had no idea what profession to choose, obviously I had mixed feelings like fear for my future, because it was very uncertain or so I thought. To clear things up, I took courses including bartending, it was a great experience, learning a little more about anything, definitely gives great satisfaction, in short, in said course I met a person who would determine my mentality a little about my future, because he I was studying graphic design, it was the first time I considered studying it, I have to confess that I always liked to draw from a very young age and I even remember that in elementary school I wanted to make my own money selling drawings. He guides me about the degree, it strikes me a lot is that where I studied it the time was short and they came out well prepared, that was decisive in a country like Venezuela where from one moment to another you have to decide what to do with your future due to the terrible economy that exists here and also that there are almost no opportunities for young people who want to grow up and have their own things.

At that time everything was in my favor since my best friend was going through a situation similar to mine, I told her that it was an excellent option for a profession, that I would go for that option, so I decided to go look for information and she decided to accompany me because at that time he was also interested but in the end only I ended up enrolling, after a month I was already studying my first semester, at another time I will tell you about my experience studying design which is very good compared to what I thought it would be because At the beginning, like everything, it was hard to get used to many things.

With this I want to reflect on those students or parents, to those who are about to choose I tell them that even if they find themselves in a moment of confusion for not knowing what to choose, they should not despair little by little things flow and overreach alone they will put more stress on them, in the end life is always in charge of taking us on the right path of what is good for us even though at times we did not know it, also that they are open to everything, do not close because otherwise they can only live negative experiences because perhaps at the time you choose what you want so much but you may discover that it was not what you wanted.

To the parents who stimulate their children when they are young, who let them be, many times they do not realize that they are being imposing and that their children do and choose something that can even make them unhappy just to please their parents, when they do not they realize that the damage they are doing to their children because they will be unhappy by not doing something that truly fulfills them, when you find something to do that you love and enjoy, you even turn it into a hobby and you will do it well and with love because it is something that they like, otherwise they will only do it for a salary or because they simply have to do it to survive and they would be condemning themselves to be unhappy all their lives. So support and accept your children's decisions because they also deserve to be happy and take their own path and decisions.

By the way, I show you a photograph of a project for the subject of photography, worth the redundancy of my first semesters where I was the model. Soon I will tell you about my very interesting experience with the design.

Thanks for reading, I send you good vibes.