Are you single? Don't have valentine's date in this coming February 14? Well don't you worry my friend, you are not alone.

Today is February 1, 2022, first day of the love month. It is the month where you can see flowers everywhere. Also some kind of gifts like stuffed toys, chocolates, jewelry, perfume and all things that we can buy as a present to our special someone. Look around and you will see some color red and heart designs. In other words love is in the air.

But what if you are single and don't have special someone? You feel that you are alone. Most of us don't want to go out because we feel that we are left out. We feel a little jealousy everytime we saw a happy couple celebrating their valentines together. And we are murmuring that we hope we like them too. Seeing the smile in their face and the sparks in their eyes make us feel jealous.

But eventhough we are alone, don't feel bad. Our family and friends love us and hey wait, don't forget SELF-LOVE.

Self-love

Self-love or love of self is an appreciation for oneself that grows from actions that support our physical, psychological and spiritual growth. Self-love means having a high regards for your own well-being and happiness. It is also taking care of your own needs and not sacrificing your well-being to please others.

Self love is prioritizing yourself first before any other things. Other said loving yourself first is an act of being selfish. But for me its a NO. How can you really love someone if you don't know how to love yourself.

HERE'S SOME TIPS THAT WE CAN DO IN VALENTINES DAY THAT SHOWS SELF-LOVE

Go to church

Always be grateful to our God for all the blessings that we receive. Being still alive and healthy are the best blessings. Eventhough we don't have lovelife its okay, life is still good. Going to church improves our spiritual growth.

Buy a gift for yourself

Giving gifts for yourself is a sign of appreciation for yourself. You don't need someone to buy that for you. If you can afford it why not, give yourself a reward for your success and hardwork. Don't deprived yourself.

Go to beauty salon

Feel special by doing that. Specially to all the girls out there like me, going to a salon is heaven for us. Make a new haircut with a hair treatment, rebond or brazillian or whatever as long as it makes you feel beautiful then go for it. Do some manicure and pedicure to make you feel beautifully confident.

Go out with your family or friends

Valentines day is not for a couple only. It is for all who know how to love. To love your family, friends and someone else. Eating in your favorite restaurants, going to the mall or watching movies together is a good bonding for the family and friends. In this way you can celebrate valentines day happy and filled with joy.

Now you, yes you, who else... you know now what to do in valentines day. It is not the time for a self-pity, its not the time for sulking. Love yourself first and others may follow. Show the world that you deserve to be loved. Show them that you are lovable. If it is not coming yet maybe soon when the right time comes. Don't be bored the right person will come for sure.

You have now 12 days to plan what you want to do in valentines day. Make yourself feel special because YOU ARE SPECIAL

Thank you guys for reading this simple article of mine. See yaah on my next one. Muaaahh ♥️mhy09

SELF-LOVE
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February 1, 2022

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