This is someone willing to listen not just to listen, but who's willing to truly hear your thoughts and feelings. They'll listen without judging you, instead, they are putting themselves in your shoe. Do you have now someone in your mind, whom you can consider your emphatizer? A person with whom you can connect emotionally and trust deeply. It's truly hard to find a person who's willing to understand you no matter what situation you're in. Someone who will cost you no harm, instead give his/her empathy with your situation. Consider yourself fortunate if you found that person beside you. That's a few chances to meet someone with decent motives without criticizing or judging you. They're always there for you through the good, the bad, and the ugly.