A quick recall: the bad memories😞

Article #82

September 08, 2022

Magandang Buhay!

It has been always good to see the sunlight every morning when we wake up and have the best experience every day to be memorable to keep until our sunset appears. Good morning!

People have different stories about how they strive on their journey to survive the way of living that we need to face every single day of our life.

Yesterday, I don't have time to publish an article because I helped my partner with his job to finish it early so he can relax for a bit. If I have time, I do read some articles from other writers so that I can interact with them and leave some comments though. some writers here shared their life about personal matters like how they treated the family of their partners and Paano na o overcome Lahat ng struggles Nila for the sake of the family ties.

Like other wives, gusto ko rin ma experience na mahalin at tanggapin ng family ng partner mo. Fortunately, we've been together for almost thirteen years and we are still not married but were happy in our relationship with one daughter.

We met here in Cebu while his siblings are far away so long ago somewhere in Manila. for the first time, we traveled to manila to find a good job and live together with his older sister. At first, everything is going smoothly and they are kind to us. They treated us well like we are much welcome in their home and I'm glad coz it was my first time meeting them personally. my partner also didn't meet her sister for a long year already.

My partner and his brother-in-law (the husband of his older sister) is a condominium contractor so he got my partner as his allies. I'm happy finally we can have money for our daily needs and also to have a share for our staying in the house of his sister.

The Workplace of my partner was far away and it is not convenient to go back and forth every day so they decided to stay in the place and go home weekly to save time and fare. I have no choice but to agree and wait for him to be home.

Fast forward,

When time goes by, his older sister always nalang galit ng di ko alam ang dahilan.I tried my best na hindi pabigat sa kanila. I do clean the house, wash the dishes, and even cook. I also help wash their clothes. And I have this kind of feeling that it will not end up good.

My partner checks up on us from time to time. And I always respond to him that were very okay so that he will not worry. One moment his sister get angry and said that she is not okay being with us in her house.

And the worst thing is that, she accused me of something that breaks me so badly."she accused me that I am a theft and she get jealous of me." her husband is kind and generous to us.

I don't say anything to my partner coz I don't want something bad to happen and this is a serious matter.when he return home it seems that nothing happened and I talked to him that I want to go home in Cebu and we start a new life as a family na kami lang walang taong kailangang pakisamahan sabi ko sakanya na nahihiya na ako masyado na sa kanila kami nakatira.

Then after he get his salary we bought a ticket back to Cebu. Before he got home I packed up already and was eager to go.Happy and relieved that moment,finally nakalabas narin ako sa bangungot na ito.I said it to myself.

While we are in the cabin, I told him everything that was happened on how his older sister treated me so bad. He got angry and he asked me why I don't say any word while we are there in her house.

I know what would be your reaction if you know everything, I told him. then he cried and asked for forgiveness for all the worst I experienced.

Before we landed in Cebu, I left all the bad memories and throw them in the sea. lol🤣its really hard na maraming issues sa pagitan ng mga inlaws.kahit ano pang gawin mong pakikisama sa kanila puro mali parin ang nakikita nila sayo.

But its okay,atleast I was out of that nightmare and continue to live with positive point of views.

For now, we don't have any contacts from them and for me it is the better for all of us no connection at all.live a life on our own.I dont have anymore hatehatedmy heart though, those memories will forever be y mind but I already moved on. to live a life with a happy family.

Thanks for reading!

@maria_23

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