How to make your children responsible

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It is said that the mother's lap is the child's first school. The child first learns from his mother and the environment around him. The child's first training begins at home.

During this time, children will never forget what they have learned. Parents want their children to be trained well enough to be considered one of the best in the world. Their child will grow up to be a character, principled, intelligent and ideal person so that they will never face embarrassment because of their children. But many parents ignore the fact that children need to be made aware of their responsibilities.

In fact, in modern times, parents do not have enough time to pay full attention to their child's training. If the father is employed then all the responsibility of training the child is placed on the mother. The school and tutors are unable to train the child as much as the parents can. In such situations, children start doing things that become unbearable. In fact, childhood is a frustrating period in which the child does not even realize his responsibilities. That's why he does everything he can to harm or enjoy it, and the parents do more harm than good to the child. In such a situation the child becomes mentally and physically injured. The effects of the beating are not only visible on the body but also on the child's mind. Which is still raw.

Parents try to present their experiences as a practical example while training their child. But how long can you do that? Your child will also feel bored in such a situation. Children soon begin to realize that they can only learn from their parents' experiences. They can't do anything on their own? In these cases the child becomes mentally retarded instead of self-confident. He thinks he can never do anything on his own. Despite crossing the line of understanding, he does not understand his responsibilities. Therefore, the best way to train a child is to make the child aware of the responsibility of his behavior and way of life and not to try coercive tactics in this regard. Be sure to give your child enough freedom to understand his or her attitude toward life and to strengthen his or her judgment. No child is born responsible but is made responsible. Always remember to do so
Often some children start going to school at an early age and then gradually begin to understand their responsibilities by living with the environment and other children. In such a situation, the attitude of a teacher is also very important in how he instills a sense of responsibility in the children. He is taught what time to study and then in break time he has the freedom to spend time in the game of his choice besides reading and after that it is time to study again. This timetable approach makes him realize what responsibilities he has to fulfill at what time.
Similarly, if any of his younger siblings start going to school with him, it is the duty of the parents to instill in the child a sense of responsibility that the son will go to school with his younger brother or sister. You have to take care of it there too. If it's time for a break, take it with you to lunch. These little things will make him feel "big and responsible" and he will gradually learn to fulfill his responsibilities and relationships.
The minds of young children are incomprehensible and immature. The only way to stop them from doing something is to scold them and tell them not to do this, not to do that, you have to take stock of yourself. Don't lose interest in children. The child also learns a lot from his favorite things and games. It also has mental development.
Many parents instill a sense of responsibility in their children when they are beyond the age of learning, while the process of instilling a sense of responsibility in children begins at an early age because If it sits in the mind of the whole life does not come out. Children who have negative attitudes in childhood are accustomed to such attitudes for life.

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Train them while they are still young. Train them the way they should go, when they grow up, they will not depart from it.

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Even the bible says train up a child in a way that if he grows he won't depart from it... giving a child responsibility at childhood stage I will say is really challenging but I don't think I will train my children that way because I wasn't brought up that way and I feel it somehow put a child into danger... like going to fight for the younger one

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What a child learns at a certain age 5 to 6 affects his whole life, kids 70% personality develop in the early age of 4 to 7 years ,If we train a child early in life, it will be good for the child for the rest of his life

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