True Love? Many have attempted, explained and shared their stories about true love. Many have thought, sought, and found their true love but how can we know true love? How do we know if what you are feeling is really love and not just admiration, lust or a burst of beauty good looks or just physical attraction?
We all love and want to be loved, we are all hurt, sometimes in our lives we all fail but sometimes we are the cause of a failure. Why is it that no matter how much you love someone, there will come a time when you will not get along? Why is it that no matter how much you love one person you will be impressed and fascinated by others? Why is love sometimes not enough to keep an organization in conflict? Why sometimes even when you know you have love there is a chance you seem bored or dreaming? Not even in him or his presence but in a situation that seems repetitive.
There is no denying the pleasure of the person who loves and is loved; you do not care about the time and the people around you because what is important for you is to take advantage of the opportunity to be together. You can disobey everything, you can tolerate everything because everything for you is happiness every time he is with you. The feeling that you want to stop the flow of time, as if drowsiness does not visit you every time you talk to him, as if you will be satisfied with whatever is served in front of you and the longing to see him again in a few hours you are just separated and you can change your whole being for him. Everything is full of dreams, pleasures and enlightenment. But once you are tested by destiny and there is a cloud when your mind is shaken here we will know, test and measure true love.
It is said that if you love and are loved, you have given this person the right to be hurt. It is strange that whoever you love the most is also capable of hurting you so much, who is your source of strength he will also be the cause of your weakness, who is with you in the development of the dream he is also capable of breaking down it anytime.
Can't we really avoid it? Wouldn't your love be enough to stop it?
We are often deceived by our eyes, you are greedy; we say "I Love you" every time we see something more beautiful or handsome we are fascinated by it. We promise an organization that will not be left in the lurch or comfort but what if your spouse gets sick and loses his or her job will not help you in your marriage? We say "I love you" but if you find out she can't have children, won't it be on your mind to have children with others? You are ready to give up your family for him but what if you have nothing to eat will you not criticize or feel so much remorse?
How far can we fight for our love?Do we have to taste the mistake to know who we really love?
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I LOVE YOU. A short sentence that can change for a long time or for the rest of your life. This is very easy to say especially to people who have a pleasant physical attraction but what if the time comes when he is no longer beautiful / handsome? Or have you discovered many of his traits that you do not like? Or does he have a dark and embarrassing past? Or her relatives / family you can't get along with? Or does he just not pay attention when you tell him something to do? Or will he commit adultery with someone far more attractive than you? Or will he get seriously ill and be the one to take care of and burden you and your family? Can you still mention the word I Love You? Or will you hesitate because there are so many negative reasons to hinder it?
The term "I Love You" is not like a transferable gift certificate, if you say I Love You make sure you feel love. It is sacred that it should not be taken lightly to anyone if your sole purpose is to play on the feelings of others and satisfy your lust. It is unfortunate that it continues to be abused by all sorts of people; young or old, rich or poor, educated or ignorant. When you say I love you, make sure you really feel love because love does not end with these two words, it is a lifelong commitment that you will represent her and your family (if you stay together).
I LOVE YOU nothing but, nothing but, no promise.
Nothing but. Because love does not look to the past. If you love someone you are not judging based on his yesterday, so you can accept him for what he is and his personality, along with his past and all his faults. So you can fight him against whoever is in front of you and you will be the first to defend him when someone violates his pride. Everyone has the right to change ‘let us not be judgmental just because of a dark yesterday and wrong decision because true love is not judgmental and broad-minded.
Nothing however. Because love does not seek an alibi. If you love someone you should not make excuses if you want to say how you feel even if the possible equivalent is disappointment or misfortune, even if your situation is awkward or your state and situation in life are uneven, even if you are against his family is yours. In my opinion, saying "I love you" does not mean that you should also be rewarded with love for the person you told it to because true love knows how to tolerate and humble.
No promise. Because we all have the ability and capacity to break a promise anytime, any occasion. Do not promise the star if you can not reach it, just do your obligation and love him sincerely in your heart your loved one will surely understand you. Do not promise wealth because you may fail to give it, it is enough for you to work hard and inspire his love for you, even if you fail to show that you have worked hard and you deserve his love. We do not have to hear a promise or make a promise because if the love you feel is real, your love will be your stronghold and you will surely be more than you expected.
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Love is, it does not matter how long you have known each other, or how far you are from each other, it does not matter how long you will meet again because true love knows how to wait, has confidence and knows how to endure for a good tomorrow.
Love is not about finding the perfect person for you but about accepting your mutual flaws.
If your love will result in a chaotic and complicated situation that can ruin a very good organization or destroy a relationship or family it is better not to reveal it because true love is understandable and unselfish. His pleasure is your pleasure as well.
The world can be cruel, the person you love has someone else to love while you are just dreaming that one day he will be with you, maybe the person you love is rubbish for others but wealth if you consider it more than tears what you want to offer every time you see him hurt and crying. But not everything we want will happen, not all the time we will agree the chance that no matter how hard you try it will still not favor you with the result. But you have to do it because true love does not destroy life and family and true love boldly faces its destiny.
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How much can you give for love? How much can you endure for love? How far is your humility for love? How many trials can you pass for love? How many temptations can you give up for love?How much forgiveness can you impose for love?
Love is endurance but it does not mean that you will be brave and will continue to love the person who is irresponsible, has no perseverance and has no effort to improve your organization and family.
Love is humility but it does not mean that you will forever enslave and give all his wishes because if he really loves you he must also know how to be humble and understand because love must be for TWO not just one.
True love forgives but it does not mean that you continue to forgive for repeated sins. Apologizing is accompanied by repentance and acceptance of the wrong done and the promise that it will not happen again but how many times the same offense is repeated it seems like forgiveness is just nonsense. 'Do not be afraid and worry because someone else is more worthy of your love.
True love is not measured by the time you are young and beautiful, not by the time you are very happy and prosperous, not by the time your skin is still smooth, not when your intercourse is still delicious at night, not when there is no seductive temptation and especially not when you have no illness and problems.
Because true love is not only pure pleasure and pleasure but also includes hardship and sorrow.
True love never fails, never changes time.
My explanation and understanding of true love may be lacking and not enough but as in the Ocean, love is wide and has no exact dimension, as in the ocean it is sometimes stormy and sometimes calm, sometimes pleasure causes sometimes you will feel very sad.
