Life is a journey full of bitterness, sacrifice, grief, happiness and hope. We interpret life as a wheel that is sometimes at the top, sometimes at the bottom. That tire could not travel on a road that was only mild to its destination. Because we are expected to experience uneven roads that will test our resilience. Like a wheel our lives will also face various trials that we do not know what kind of road is waiting to be traversed. It may be mild at first then become bumpy eventually. We hold on to only one thing, we control our lives no matter what trials we face.
Only a few of us like the test because most of us turn away from it. We do not want torture in life especially and we know that there are trials that we will face alone. We have a hard time coping with trials and we feel that heaven and earth are covering us. With the slightest trial we experience, we gradually become discouraged. It is as if we are saying to ourselves that it is better that we do not live. The best thing to do is to end life. But we do not realize that it is the trial that brings us to a life with meaning and significance. We may stumble on our way but if we immediately stand up and learn from the stumbling block we will be guided on the right path to take. We do not realize that our prostration is a great blessing especially as it becomes a school for us. We think that it is true that life is a school many things are taught to us that are not known within the four corners of the classroom.
In our journey different situations we face it can be happy, it can also be sad. It is sad when someone loses in our lives especially when we are sure that the old organization can never be restored. Happy when we can be with our loved ones. But in these matters, how we deal with those situations will determine what kind of life awaits us. If our loved ones let us know that means heaven and earth will cover us. If we fail and our dream is achieved does it mean the end of the world. We hold our lives. There are only two things we can do. We may become entangled in bad things and feel hopeless. That everything can no longer be changed and we can only wait for death. Or we will choose that test that is only temporary and that we will only have to face because we know it has a limit.
Bottom line in a song: Just behind the darkest clouds, you will find the sun still shining. It is not always the rainy season. Not all the time shady. We also do not realize that with the changing of the times our personality becomes perfect. It becomes more fun because we experience different things that accentuate the color of life. Like a butterfly he first went through various stages before he had wings. Life is also a metamorphosis with a follow-up stage you can not insist on the thing you want because it is not yet time. As in life the more trials are passed the more it acquires color and the personality becomes full. The higher his forehead, the more he went through the pains of life.
The people we meet in our lives are not accidents . They are not accidents because they play a big role even when we buy salt at the store, the child we have eaten and the person we met inside the ship. God destined us to know them because they are part of the story of our lives. The end of the story of our lives will not be complete if we do not meet them and no one plays the role of the character who will make up the story.
We are only lucky if we get to know the people we know in high time. There are people who only play a temporary role in our lives, that we can be with them for a short time because that is the only role that God has given them. However, the important thing is that they leave a good mark on our heart and personality.
Our lessons and experiences with that person will live on in our memories until our last breath. Just like the people we temporarily spend time with in our lives, there are limits. But these things give us the strength to continue our journey on the surface of the earth. We can go back in time and remember that this person taught us the meaning of life.We can remember the wonderful moments with that person.
The people around us can give us advice on what is right and what is wrong but we can still make decisions in our lives. We still have to do what we think is good and make ourselves happy. We should not be tied to unpleasant experiences but rather let that memory tear out the lessons that can be a weapon in our journey. Let us follow the cry of our feelings. Let us say what we want to say and do what we want to happen as long as we do not step on, destroy and hurt other people because sometimes we do not have a second chance to say and do the things we would have done for the first time only.
Let us just remember that happiness should not be expected of another person. If someone cannot accept you because you are different from them, it may be because of your unique personality and they want to change you. You have nothing to worry about, not everyone thinks that way. There are people you can accept regardless of your personality.
We hear other people say "life is a journey, enjoy its course". But often these same people say that they are no longer happy in their life, but when they earn a lot of money, are promoted at work, the child gets high marks, life changes and becomes they are happy again. Everyone should keep in mind that the time to be happy is during this time and the time to be happy with every step you take in your mind is not tomorrow, but now.
Direction is success and he is not a destination. Do not view success as a single event or result but look at it as a lifelong process since you have imprinted on your mind the clear picture that you will succeed in all endeavors. Picture in your mind the life you want to happen and continue the journey until your last breath. Focus on your good outlook on life, your life will change, you will have direction and you will look at the trials, obstacles, obstacles, successes, pleasures and attainments as part of your journey. They will be your magic as you develop your individuality, as you journey through self-improvement and unique quality of life. I am also not saying that no problem will come in life. But if you look at problems as a test it will be easier for you.
You will feel resilience, calmness and you will seek in those events the golden knowledge that God wants you to learn. Life, on the other hand, is a harmonious balance of the positive and the negative, how our lives revolve and the direction we take determines how we deal with each other. As they say: how our lives revolve and the direction we take determines how we deal with both. As they say: how our lives revolve and the direction we take determines how we deal with both.
As they say:Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.
Ultimately, everything that happens in life happens for a reason. You will not enjoy the pleasures of life without going through the bitterness associated with it. Matute's statement added that "Only those who experience secret sorrow recognize secret happiness."
We are becoming stronger now because of our experiences in our journey whether it is good or bad. The people and experiences we encounter and go through on our journey have paved the way for us to reach who we are today. so do not reflect but stand firm because life is a journey.
