When we first start working on a goal, we are full of passion, fire and emotion within us. We feel invincible and you know we can achieve what we want. We start running toward that goal, determined to make it happen, and we know we can do what we want to happen.
So, that’s when we start to encounter some barriers along the way. You can fight some of them, but then we start making excuses for no longer working on those goals. We lose interest and allow ourselves to get confused in daily activities. Before we knew it, our goal was to move to “another plane” and we were no longer focused on it. But what’s worse is we believe we can no longer make our dream come true. So what happened to us? To conduct a situation analysis, there are four main components that can make dreams come true.
The first questions you should ask yourself are:
Why? What is your reason for desiring this particular goal? Suppose your goal is to buy yourself a house. Ask yourself why I like it? Your answer might be something like ... "because I want to own my property, instead of paying rent every month for the rest of my life." So why? How important is it to you to have your own home or pay rent? Your answer might be ... "Because I want to have a home when I retire from work, so I don't have to worry about paying rent or a mortgage with my income." Very beautiful! Will you do it for yourself or for someone else? Always ask yourself Why ?, And write down the answers until you reach the bottom of your wish. When you see clearly what’s on your mind ... you’ll know which way to go.
Do you think you deserve it? Many of us struggle with our low self-esteem and feel that we do not deserve to be successful and prosperous in life. Did you know? If you don’t think you deserve it, you will fight back when that opportunity comes and let it pass right under your nose.
You can do it unconsciously, to sabotage your own efforts or refuse to try to reach that goal.
First of all, you must understand that you really deserve success and prosperity in your life. In addition, you must be willing to accept it. We are very good at giving help to others, but when it comes to us, we are not open to receiving it. We believe that it is better to give than to receive, and in a way, it is. But this does not mean that we should close all possibilities, there are some people, that we must learn to receive their help.
Always believe in your mind that you deserve to be a successful and happy person. Then accept the abundance when it comes to you. Make the following statement daily and at all times “I accept the full prosperity and happiness that the universe has in me, NOW”.
Step by step. If your goal is to buy a home, chances are you will need to achieve smaller goals first. You need to save to provide payment on your future home. You can also end the repayment of a loan or repay a loan to apply for a new loan. You need to establish what steps you must follow to fulfill that goal. Always keep in mind your ultimate goal, but at the same time, you should take the previous steps, as they are a necessary prerequisite to visualize your dream.
Write a list of steps you must take to guide you forward. Then he starts working with them, one by one. Do not be overwhelmed or blinded to a single thought of great purpose. These previous steps are always necessary.
Whatever happens advance your goal. It doesn’t matter what inconveniences appear to you. It doesn’t matter if your determination starts. Success will come when you don’t give up on it. Make a commitment to yourself that you will continue to work towards your goal, no matter what happens. Write it down and put it somewhere where you can see it. Read your commitment aloud every day.
Remind yourself that nothing will change unless you choose to change it. Load your mind with positive thoughts and move on. If you have problems, find a way to solve them. If you can’t change that barrier, then change focus and start working on another aspect of your goal . Often times, barriers disappear if you give them enough time for the solution to come out at the least expected moment. Let your energy be bright and leave all your doubts and fears. Feel confident inside that you can do everything you want to show in your life.
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