Have you been inloved? What's the feeling of being loved or inloved to someone?, I've read so many stories and essay stating that your inlove if there are butterflies in your stomach, also you will feel that your inlove if you always thinking that person and you imagine things together with the person you love.Im talking here about a romantic love, in which it involves two opposite gender who loved each other but today the meaning of romantic relationship didn't limit on two opposite sex but also on the same sex, in Philippines there is LGBTQ community that consist people who loved persons that the same gender that they have, and there's a judgements but they are already accepted by society. There are different forms of love not only focusing on romantic relationship, our heart is pure in which no matter how bad we are there's a love that still left in our heart and at the end of the day, we use that love to save someone and help someone.
No matter how we diverse by our religions, we still believe in our own God that created everything, this is a forbidden love that no one can get, everyone of us has their own belief about our Gods but I'm sure that we pray in our God to ask a healthy body and safety of our family. I'm a Catholic and I believe in my own God, there's a holy Bible that guide us to know him more and it indicates there how he do everythings thats why we Catholic attend the mass every Sunday so that we can praise him and we can give thanks for all the things he do, for making us live with no sickness and asking forgiveness for all the sins we do, I admit that im not regularly attending the mass every Sunday but I never forget to pray to him before I go to bed and every time I wake up in the morning I thank him for the new day he gave me to devote my time to something meaningful. As a Catholic I have to follow the ten commandments he made to be a good son of God and avoid to commit sins, but people are not perfect sometimes people are committing sins but God is forgiving, he forgives people no matter how bad what he did. In other religions i don't know what they believe but I'm sure they also love their God and they do everything to follow the order of their God.
In this world we have friends that we can talk in times of our downs, and they are advising things so that they can make us smile again, love for friends is also important, its not a romantic relationship but this is the feeling when you want a strange people that has the same vibes as you, if you found that stranger then it can become your friend. Friendship forms when there's a kindness and love involve, if others see that you do good things they will become good to you and as the times go by you'll realize that Friendship was already formed. It is easy to find people who will good to you but its difficult to find a true friendship since it needs a lot of effort, thats why if you have true friends, do everything to make them stay just be good to them and help them in times of problems in that case it can make the bond stronger and the friendship will last long. As a human, the life is too short thats why spend the life to find friends so that your life will be enjoyable and full of happiness.
It is the second important form of love but the first is love for God, in this form of love the family involves in here in which when we born in this world we already had a family that will take care of us until we grow, this is the love that a material thing can't replace. Those parents show their love to children's and support their needs, in times of problems parents are sacrificing themselves for the sake of their children thats the true love, no matter how the situation is they didn't give up because their strength is their children. We can't avoid having a problems in the family and there's a misunderstanding between a son to his parents and it leads to a fight and the son chooses to leave, but in the end no matter what we feels about our parents, they are still our parents that take care us and we will realize how they sacrifice themselves for our sake. In that time we can feel a deep regret and our tears will start to fall while we're holding in our parents asking for forgiveness for all what we did. Decades will past and our parents will grow old thats the time that its our responsibility to take care of them and give them all their needs, no matter howbusy we are on work giving them time can make them smile despite of loneliness because their children's already have a family or busy on work.
For me before you love someone you must love yourself first because I believe that if you love yourself, you can also love someone. You must believe in yourself that you can do anything and surpass all the struggles in life and no matter what problems you'll face, tell to yourself that its just a piece of paper. There are instances that there are people who give all they have on romantic relationship and they didn't give enough for their selves thats why in time of break up, they feel to much pain because they give everythings but still its not enough. I feel pity for them but I find them as a fool also because they dont love their selves first thats why they are in pain, but there are also people whose strong enough to handle problems and romantic problems since the love they have is divided into two, love for their partners and love for their selves.