A few days ago, we celebrated Valentines Day. And as expected, nothing special was done for the day. Me and my hubby, well, we don't have that kind of relationship... Ha ha ha.. My friends were asking me where we went and I said, home. It's just another day...
Yes, it would have been fun to go out and celebrate, but thing is, we are always together. We both work from home and spend most of our days together. We do most everything together. We eat together, we go out together, even for the most mundane task, we'd go together if work will permit. We even laughed at some of the memes we saw on the other social network about two toilets in one room and said it was perfect for us so we can p**p together. LOL.
That's us... So, going out to celebrate doesn't make a lot of sense for us, if you get my drift. When we are almost always together and already do those stuff together.
But, yeah, I'm still a girl and one who would love a little token from time to time especially when its that time of the year... A time to celebrate love, but well, that's not my blessing it would seem. During these times, I refrain from looking at social media posts since if I look at my friends on social media and see them receiving various trinkets, chocolates, flowers and sometimes I get this tinge of jealousy and I sometimes wish that my hubby were more thoughtful, that he'd think of surprising me with a gift from time to time, but as I said maybe those types of stuff isn't for me. If I want something, I should just go and buy myself some.
But when I think of what he does for me, drives me wherever I need to go, if I need to go anywhere at all and waits for me until I'm done with any errand, he prepares breakfast for me, takes care of me when I don't feel good. All those little things. And I wouldn't exchange that for all the trinket in the world, not many wives can say that about their husbands and some may even get it worse.
Howells, the cards will lay where they fall and I'm happy with where I am but sometimes, just sometimes, you get to wishing for something else, not really different but envy and jealousy can really bring you somewhere you don't need to be going and it just makes you feel really bad when you don't have to.
Well, folks, that's all I have for today. Thank you for your patience.
