Love is beautiful and everyone wants to be loved. Everyone beams a shining face whenever our activities and existence are highly accepted and appreciated. We felt bad whenever things considering us are repudiated by others. But, what can we do to others for them to cherish us?

It's of note that not everyone will cherish us. Not that it's our fault or something we do, No! Many of our haters don't even know us very well to tell! But they just hate us and don't want anything to do with us! It might be because of our physical appearances, body color, height, ethnicity, language, biological status etc. They just hate us for these factors that we did not develop by ourselves. Many hates us "just" because we are friends of their sworn enemies. Although we don't even know their reasons of enemity. How can we deal with this kinds of haters? Be silent and calm. Don't panic or try to win them over because it might leads to other serious problems. Allow nature take it place. With time, love will conquer such hatred when they found out your innocence and uniqueness.

What about those that says that they love and cherish you when their hearts are far from you? This kind of hatred is worse! Because you might not know that you are dealing with your haters but thinking that they are your friends! They envy and jealous you in any instance. They backstab or backbite you always and indirectly. That's a big red flags! If your friend do that! You have to be careful with such person! When they gossips about another person with you, know that he/she do so with other about you too. Just be careful! Keep your success and achievements silent! Belittle your efforts and results before your friends to see how they will reacts. This method is known as striking the ocean and see how the fish. Those of your friends, but haters will poke their faces or even leave you. Don't worry about them. You just separates goats and sheep. If you don't get any sheep. It is better to be alone than to be surrounded by haters, you called friends!

Conclusion

Hard situations and challenges bring out the true nature of people around us. Let's keep managing our affairs personally and allow nature to take it's course. Time solves a lot of problems especially individuality or personality differences! It's better that you hate me than posing as a friend but my sworn enemy! But love brings progress and unity! Let's love ourselves!