Have you ever been in a situation where it is so hard for you to forgive? Like, you were so full of hatred and even though you din forgive those you hate there's still heavy feeling in your heart?
I know each of us reading this article have been in the moment of our life we're we feel so down, we been a victim of bullying, people let us feel that we are hatred, they wanted us to feel that we are weak, sad, failure. It's like they're taking the joy, the happiness in us.
And from that we also became one of them, we bully other people, we want other people feel what we have are struggling. We became full of anger, insecurity, pride, sadness, we feel lonely, and it's like forgiving is not something that we cannot give.
We are chained by negative thoughts, we are blinded by being so pessimistic. Our heart became stone. We became slave of hatred.
But then one day we became so tired of living a life lifting the bags of brokenness. We became tired of the weighs that we carry. And we wanted to change our life.
Then we try to make a new life. We remove the bags we carry one at a time. We release the anger, the hatred and we even tried to forgive people. We forgave those people who brought us down.
But then even we did everything, even we released those burdens we carry we still feel the brokenness, and we don't even know how to figure it out.
Then this is the last thing, we often forget to forgive ourselves.
We forget how to love ourselves.
Now, I hope everyone is okay and what you have been through in life and still feel burden today, try to talk to yourself and just forgive ourselves from what we've done.
But also, we should not forget this thing. Ask God for forgiveness.
We will never be free from hatred if we don't ask God for forgiveness.
Don't forget God over everything.
We can talk to Him. Anytime. Anywhere.
He loves us so much!
Stay healthy and full of forgiveness
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“When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free.”
Catherine Ponder
“Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.”
Paul Boose
“The act of forgiveness takes place in our own mind. It really has nothing to do with the other person.”
Louise Hay
“Always forgive your enemies – nothing annoys them so much.”
Oscar Wilde
“We read that we ought to forgive our enemies; but we do not read that we ought to forgive our friends.”
Sir. Francis Bacon
“Most of us can forgive and forget; we just don't want the other person to forget that we forgave.”
Ivern Ball
“To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love. In return, you will receive untold peace and happiness.”
Robert Muller
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Quotations written above is from the site of positivityblog.
THANK YOU!
learning to forgive yourself and to love yourself is the most important lesson in the world. after that, one must continue to work to improve themselves. great job. upvoted!