Why is the family unit breaking up? Reasons

 long distance from moral and social values. The lust for capital has overturned the human and social system. Feeling lonely. Relationships, kinship, love, love may have been lost in the face of the lust for money in the East in general and in the subcontinent in particular, the common family system that has existed for centuries may be counting its last breaths a sister who is the daughter-in-law of a rich family and Her children have the same thoughts but when her poor brother goes to her house she says that distant relatives have come to our house. Do not show yourself as my brother in front of our relatives because There is a big difference in your status. This is a true reflection of our society.

In the past people used to marry their children in their family, the girl or boy's father-in-law was his own, the girl's father-in-law was her mama, uncle, aunt etc. The mother-in-law was a mother-in-law, aunt or uncle. In this way, the boy and the girl also had a close relationship with their father-in-law and mother-in-law, which maintained respect for the relationship In order to keep the lodge of big relationships, one would advise with a single delusion and in this way the rift in the relationship would be eliminated. But the change of circumstances took a new turn. Relationships outside the family have become a tradition, relationships have been forced out of the family due to attitudes. Thus the family system which has been like a chain for centuries is badly broken. Yours 

From rural areas to cities

Migration and new thinking 

Separation from the family When economic problems force an individual to migrate to the city, his relationship with the family weakens. Due to the change of lifestyle and distance from the family, he often enters into a marital relationship of choice. It takes time for them to understand each other's habits and manners. When they go to the boy's house and see the old ways of their mother-in-law, Nand, it seems to them that their manners and compassionate attitude are stereotyped. She wants to introduce the system that is in her house which creates confusion in mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, creates feelings of hatred in the heart. The girl succeeds in separating her husband from her parents and alone

Limited income and household expenses 

After marriage outside the family, it happens that the son cannot keep the whole family happy with his limited income. A single earning person should meet the electricity and other expenses or the wishes of the family. Thus the family system is not maintained due to economic, social and marital reasons. Low income, marriage outside the family, lack of money, household Troubles overwhelm love relationships. 

Effect on children's minds

The result is that young children are always annoyed with the question of where the parents or the elders of the family are going. Why are you going? When will you come? Not hungry? Why sleep late? No worries? Very quiet. No worries? Why ask such questions to us?

Mercy of the Elderly House 

The generation gap in the age of science and technology is such that the new generation thinks that grandparents are old fashioned. It is true that some elders try to apply the practices and traditions of their time to the present time. They do not accept the changes and want the children to do what they are saying. This does not mean that such elders At the same time, they should be treated rudely, they should be treated badly, their words should be heard from one ear and blown away from the other ear, or the limb should be suspended and left. They have more experience than the new generation of hobbies, modern day customs not only seem strange to them but also disliked by them then they react angrily to understand the experience and advice of the elders However, the young people who tolerate the restraint of their elders and give the elders their rightful place are successful in every field of life. Even such families do not fall prey to disintegration.

Mobile phone is a source of inattention 

The strange age has come when every person is so lost in mobile that he has no sense of existence around him. The sanctity of relationships is also getting lost behind the screen of this modern technology. Granted, family members who are engrossed in social media are more connected to mobile phones than relationships, due to which they cannot accept the words and advice of the elders. Not far away when man will be cut off from man.

No tolerate 

The atmosphere in some homes is such that no one tolerates anyone's talk, not even the existence of anyone, whether they are grandparents or grandparents. There is no ability to understand problems. For example, if a son wants to bring his father to him, then the son is intolerant to such an extent that if his father interrupts him, then the son does not tolerate it only out of anger. Due to this, the atmosphere of the house becomes strange and strange. It is the generation gap that is creating a gap between the new generation and the elders. It is a question of mental distance between the two generations.

Behavior 

۔ It is difficult to stop the storm of time and problems but if we think with heart and mind we can bring happiness back to our homes even today. The old family system can be revived which will bring peace in the house. It is also a solution to the problems. It is also a fact that as the sources of income are limited, the means of production are changing. Our social, economic and social system has also played an important role in destroying the family system.