Would You or Wouldn't You?: That's The Question

Howdy! It's a holiday but I had chosen to work instead of resting. I was a bit jealous though because my family went out this afternoon then there's me, working. Anyway, here's a random article.

We still have time.' We planned to end the call at 2 pm so we could still have our break before another activity.

'It's just 1:35 pm. I have an extra question here, but I'll reserve that for next time. Should we use the wheel of names again, together with the 250 questions?' I was the one who led the meeting a while ago. We're done with my first icebreaker, but there's still time to have another one.

That's what I told them before we had this funny yet thought-provoking discussion about love. Mon, one of the coolest extroverts I know, told me that Oki, our friend, said something about love that stuck in his mind.

'Ang hassle na ng buhay, magpapahassle ka pa ba sa pag-ibig?'

That's Oki's question. Interestingly enough, I called names to hear their opinion about this.

Most of my colleagues were older than me by a few years, so it's fascinating to know their opinion about this.

Some answered NO. They wouldn't dare to be another source of hassle and pain in this cruel world. Their answers were on point. They said that if they really like someone, they wouldn't think twice about giving out their hundred per cent of love.

Even those who are single and not in a relationship, they don't want their love life to be a hassle. If they like someone, they will take them seriously. For them, it's a waste of time if they'll still play games.

One answered yes. For her, being a 'hassle' isn't negative at all. It's her way of testing if her partner is genuine or not.

My answer? Well, my younger self would choose the complexity of love - playing games and enjoying the push and pull. But then again, I'm more mature now. I'd choose peace over mind games. I'd choose consistency over temporary highs. Life's already full of what if's. In love, I want to be someone's sure choice.

That's it for this random article. It's been days since I last posted here. Will try to be active this December. Time flies so fast!! In a few months, I'll be celebrating my first year here! Yey!

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I hope you're having a great day!

November 30, 2022