When two people decide to spend their life together they come with a baggage of promises. The clichéd vow ‘for better or for verse comes to mind. The question is who provides the ‘better’ and who the ‘worse’
No defining is needed when it comes to what culminates in a perfect scenario in bed. No amount of porn videos, playboy images and least of all Viagra will do that.
Just as working on a job requires a lot of planning, thinking and hard work so does what goes on in one’s bed to be a success. Understanding the needs of each other that either provides is the way to go.
But alas that is not what is happening among most couples. They go for quick fixes like the one night stands not getting each other prepared but rushing to it
That is where discontent among couples begins having little or no time to sort out what needs to be sorted out.
It is understandable that in today’s world one needs to sweat it out for survival but little do they know giving time for each other will more than compensate for the tension one goes through in their job arena
The attitude towards each other during the day lending shoulders to each other, praying together, eating together and such activities will get them ready to spend time with each other for that beautiful experience that is discussed above
One cannot ignore the benefit of ‘me time’ and that time surely would not be spent watching porn video, browsing through play boy magazines and such but instead could be spent on hobbies that need time and concentration
Sadly the Net is overloaded with stuff that keep couples away from each other that culminate into divorce and other unpleasant consequences.
I know of a couple who are both ‘married’ to their respective jobs each striving to reach heights having little or not time for each other. It is easy to guess what happens to their marital vows but if both are happy with what they are doing who are we to question them. This kind of happiness is not seen among most couples who would certainly want some quality time spent with each other .
One would question about the need to go for aphrodisiacs in order to have success in bed but if this does away the need for petting that question needs to be answered.