Acting dignified
Unless you're ready for a lot of 'wars,' the way to go is acting dignified.
Nobody cares about your fantasies.
No one wants to know about your desires.
We are all out to play the game of life and the laws adhere with those of game theory.
When you're aged, you must act your age. If you do not want to be labeled inappropriately, you have to really be an old age.
If you're a guy, you must act like a guy. Else, all names are ready for you.
When you're married, flirting is out of the equation. Stand by you man, if you're a woman. Likewise, be there for your woman, if you're a man.
The world cares not about your predicaments. The game dictates that you act accordingly.
If you aren't sure whether you'll be accepted or not, better live a poet and hermit lest they misjudge and sabotage you.
You'd better neutralize how people see you. Stop making a show for yourself. If not, you are already judged.
Stop showing off. In the same manner, cease to be overly humble. Just show up at the middle. This is not to play safe but just to not draw unnecessary attention for yourself.
If you wish to be noticed, go to the circus. Otherwise, act dignified and accordingly.
This is coming from an eccentric one. The people around refused to show her to a mirror but then she eventually saw herself in ugly shape.
There and then she realized how wrongly she has been living her life.
Stop loving just anyone. Stick to your spouse.
Quit fooling around. Focus making dime for your family, bringing food to the table, taking every opportunity to help with expenses.
If you ever feel like giving up on a decent life, think again. It goes a long way to act decent and dignified. Not only for yourself but for your children, your family and friends.