It is important for you what happens or not when bringing a child into the world.
He must be like you in the first place, his solid doors are closed that have not learned to love. He is affectionate towards everyone, but is an iceberg to his son, seeks everyone, asks, listens for hours, tells his troubles tirelessly, but refuses to ask "how are you" to his son
You talk for a long time about the worries of your precious relatives, you don't say "oh" woe, you don't ask why if your child's face falls, and you want your children to be exactly like this.
Let that chain you set up spread over generations, let lovelessness grow in your lineages.
According to you, this is the truth, you don't like being questioned and being held accountable.
If a little love is looking for a crumb, your child will say "I saw it like this" and get out of the business. No, you didn't see it that way, you couldn't offer love to the second third person. The walls you created would be built for those people as well, they would not be exclusive to the souls you gave birth to and killed.
Yes, mountain-like walls only for those souls, unbreakable, indestructible, but those souls you left in the unseen wreckage, the walls of disappointment that collapse on you in every attempt to be loved.
Will you realize one day? I do not know,
Do you think that your children, whom you have pushed into lovelessness and kept away with false excuses, are blind or deaf? There are so many children in this world whose head has not been stroked once, whose hands have not been held, who yearn for a sincere hug, they will even accept tactile intimacy from any stranger.
So I'm asking why did you bring it to the world?
"Life conditions, those were the times, did anyone ask me" is the most obvious form of defense.
Okay, why didn't you like it? Why is that ?
Is it so difficult to love a being that you give life to with your blood and soul as much as you know how to love others?
Do you know how your children feel when you love others? Do you know that he perceives it as a unique situation? You know, maybe who knows!
Do you know that individuals who are pushed to lovelessness turn into people who give uncontrolled anger and aggressive overreactions over time?
Then it is absurd to say "why are you like this", how do you expect a work to be?
And do you know that those individuals begged from corrupt people, whom they knew for the first time, for the love they could not get from you, and that they submitted to disgusting requests in order to be patted? No way!
You bring in broken hearts with your hands, but are you happy with it?
What a pity that this chain never bounces, It is carried from father to son, from mother to daughter. There is no one who says stop to this, it has become normal, as if it is a normal situation, what is it?
The mother has inculcated her daughter and son with harsh words, she warns her as if she wishes for the best, but there is no contact, does she suffer, does she want to be understood, she says "love me", they have no value, right?
As long as that chain is turned, it can be passed on to generations, and people without love and intolerance can join the world.
You know, there are always mistakes in young people, it's called the "Z" generation now, they are easily shy, questioning individually, socializing over the internet.
Is it just that generation "Z" to blame?
The youth of the 90's and after '97 know this well, it is not just us who are at fault.
Those who are exposed to lovelessness are not left with a choice, and children who are not accepted in the society and raised without love are not given another way.
There is no right to stand up and be called "youth is finished", look at what is finished, not what is finished. A building with a rotten infrastructure cannot be expected to stand, you will write that it will collapse in the first earthquake, you cannot say why it is falling apart if you do not add the solid column.
This is not my site, these are the most painful part of the truth, how do I know? I live!
If my body is divided into parts, I will only be noticed, I am only one of those who are tested through the lovelessness of the one who gave birth and the hard heart of the one who killed, there are many who have not written yet, have not put it into words,
Loving is the easiest, don't spare the cheapest
Wow. The sharp approach used will definitely impact the guilty ones. Very true. Why would we expect an eloquent to be a good humn when he was raised in a loveless family in the first place? Yes, I believe that what you will be as a person depends on you ultimately, but we are not numb to the pain these people cause us. We can't just forget the experiences we endured and become an angel or whatsoever. External situations can also affect a person greatly, and to this, who should we blame? Just him only? Or the people around him that pushed him to be like that?