Communicative Experiences with Your Own Center

Let's see how is it about yourself?

How do you welcome an experience that comes into your life?

Do you spend your life trying to attract the good and pushing the bad?

Are you in the effort or in the balance?

You can't really have a relationship if you're not at your center, if you don't know who you are. Osho says, "The only reason you need a relationship is because you can't be alone". All relationships born out of necessity will get you into a whirlpool after a while. Expectations hurt, you lose your true strength and you begin to weaken. A true relationship is based on love and acceptance. There the self is preserved and there is space for freedom for both parties. Building a real relationship comes first from sincerity with yourself. For this you have to be one with yourself.

Forgive the past and yourself. Whatever happened, happened, and what was said was said. What does the German need? What behavior do you need to convert? If behavior does not change, experience does not change.

Now stop complaining. Whatever you are experiencing, look at the benefit it brings to you. Because no experience is one-sided good or bad. It is the whole and it has to do with how you see it.

Love yourself and create your own worth. No outside action or word can make you feel valued. Unless you feel valued.

Explain. When you are hurt or angry, don't keep that feeling inside. Improve your ability to express at the right moment in that moment. It's your responsibility to express it, and it's the other party's responsibility whether it's broken or not. If you want to have a lying relationship, of course, you can act politically. I'm talking about a real relationship, a relationship beyond interests.

Give up on ideals. All are accusatory. Try to observe the needs and feelings of the other person as much as you observe your own needs and feelings. What does he need? Why is he acting this way?

Don't compare and be yourself. Comparisons always create shortcomings. There are always better than you, there are always worse than you. What matters is how you treat yourself.

Breathe into your belly. Because your wife means your center, it means me, and it means the place where self-confidence, self-worth and creativity come to life.

I wouldn't say be selfish, but don't put your needs and feelings behind. Remember, everything is a reflection of your relationship with yourself. Your relationship with your child, your partner, your family, your coworkers, your social relationships with your sibling are all reflections of you. If there is a war inside, it is reflected outside, if there is kindness inside, it is reflected outside.

Be kind to yourself. Dot.

Did I contribute to this one by one while the souls were diminishing in the world? While the streets were merry without the twilight of the night, now while crying with the sobs of silence, the agony of those who caused it, that I could not oppose it by saying "don't cause it," covers the pain, sitting at home while my burning soul is burning feels like cruelty! A few scraps of paper for what, for the yellow metal found in the ground? You know, who took it, let him say that he took it, let those who are deprived of honor who did all this cruelty come out and show it! When I can't explain something to myself, how can I explain it, while words are not enough, under the falling bombs!

I know that if I cry, there will be no cure all night long, even if I do not cry, the storm will not end soon!

I have hope in my Lord, I know it is endless, I wait patiently, why do I wait while I wait! What do I say when I'm on the road? On the way out, you know the will to take a step, the will, the effort, the effort? Who says my soul almost watch more, someone will appear, don't be parsley! My dear soul, why are you being parsley for everything? Let me explain? You, who can't say step by a millimeter while inches of souls are being taken with torture, according to whom are you telling me, O shameless!

Though they say happiness is bought with suffering, so should it wait a little longer? Or should a step be taken while in agony? I couldn't solve it, I was in a dilemma! If I don't participate, if I don't suffer, won't I end up the same?

Otherwise, we don't have to allocate a room and say "Here is yours" just because we can't keep the suffering from flying over our heads, how are we going to find happiness unless we look for a way out?

Instead of letting it make us sad every day between us, we can get closer to happiness by planting the seeds of smile.