The only thing that does not change is change itself, say philosophers. Fish smells of seduction. For this reason, in order to start change, we must start from the beginning, from ourselves ...
People read a book, participate in a conversation, are impressed and say that he immediately decided to change himself. In fact, it is impossible to change human nature. Have you ever seen gold turn into silver? If people catch a moment when they can transform themselves over time, they immediately start by changing their clothes. This is the case in all religions and societies. For the mind, changing clothes is the easiest and safest. I see someone has decided to be religious. He started to participate in religious conversations. The first thing he does is change his outfit. However, he is not aware that he is hiding the evil in his essence under this dress. The mustache shapes of the rightists and the parquets worn by the leftists before September 12 are the works of this mental game. the unique clothes of the militants are the first step of change. Your mental structure does not die or disappear by changing clothes. On the contrary, he gets stronger by wearing new clothes. The person only satisfies his ego by changing his clothes.
However, every change starts from the essence. But the ego man starts the change from the shell. Change starting from the shell is very deceptive, fake and short-lived. A person wearing a devout guise brings along lies, falsehood, and hypocrisy in his essence. Look around you, from the manager to the ruled, from the supervisor to the officer, everyone is changing their shell. How many people change language, change clothes, change their hair style according to the political power. If the core does not change, there are so many clothes to wear that you will be surprised. If there is a lie in your essence, you will wear honest human clothing in the shell. A sinful person puts on a virtue garment. If you are coward, the courage suit suits you best. An irreligious person hides under a religious garment.
Being something, wanting to become something leads you to wear this kind of clothing. However, if you remove the bad, dirt and rust in your essence, you will naturally turn into a good person. Your essence is already very good… Inside you are the lie of the horse, the hypocrisy of the horse, the fraud of the horse… Then you will reach the pure goodness. You take the gold out of the ground. You melt that raw gold over the fire. Melting gold removes other impurities in it. It reaches the purity of gold. Your essence is like gold, but there are foreign mines mixed with it. Just get rid of them. Be yourself.
One day, a man came to Abu Hasan Harkani, one of the elders of his heartfriends. Man: "O sainted man, O dear servant of God, I am very sinful. This scares me a lot. I want to have changed myself. Please have mercy on me. Please give me the clothes you are wearing. I want to wear them and light on me, ”he said. While the man was speaking these words, he was also crying. Tears were dripping on Abu Hasan Harkani's feet. The man was very sincere. Abu Hasan Harkani: “Dude, before I make the mistake of giving you my clothes, would you answer this question? Could a man be a woman by wearing women's clothes? Or can a woman wear a man's suit and become a man? " said. The man said "No" as he wiped his tears. Abu Hasan Harkani laughed and said to him, “Here, take my clothes be yours. What if you wear my skin, not my clothes? Until this day, who has survived by wearing a saint gown? Have you ever heard?" said.
As you want something to happen, you move away from your essence. Do not stray from your essence. Do not be afraid of your essence. See and understand your essence. The person who wakes up and sees himself also sees that everything is within his reach. Whoever chases his shadow will never be able to catch him. But when he turns around, his shadow follows him. Desires, desires, ambition, what you want to be are like shadows. As you chase, they run away. When you return to the essence, you will be yourself