When you meet someone and everything is going well, love and affection increase, the desire to be with them increases, but sometimes that fades with chemistry and passion. Enduring love builds up with respect and admiration for that person, for who they really are.
But sometimes something takes us away that closes our hearts and makes us lose interest when we see something that generates doubts and fear. Here love and all positive feelings are cut and broken.
Love is a natural state of a person. We all want to have someone to love. Our natural tendency is to fall in love. When we meet someone we like, we are automatically drawn to love them unless there is something to put us off.
When you find someone you really like, you can't turn them off or push them away to maintain your relationship with who you think is "the one."
This does not mean that you should pretend, but that you should become a person who by nature does not do things that create fear in everyone.
By working on yourself, becoming someone who is not selfish, narrow-minded, emotionally unstable or overly sensitive, and easily offended, we can keep love when we find it.
Become someone who is naturally the most attractive person by not doing the things that scare you; "Oh my God, what will this person be in the future?"
You can dress well and wear perfume, but at some point, they will see who you are. It has to be a person worthy of the love you are looking for.
Basically, we are saying not to do things that alienate someone, instead of concentrating too much on doing the things we love. Both are better, of course.
EXERCISE
Step 1 List all the things that put you off. Arrogance, selfishness, irascible, easy to offend, emotionally cuddly, etc. are just some of the qualities that make a physically attractive person very unattractive. Build your list without filtering, just list anything that puts you down mentally, emotionally, and physically.
Step 2 Look honestly at yourself and observe yourself objectively for the next two to three weeks. Is there something in you that needs to change? How many things on the list in Step 1 is he guilty of?
When faced with an unpleasant reality, don't be afraid. Everything in your personality can change because you were not born as you are now. People are born as a blank slate, we are shaped by the events of our lives. All properties can be changed if you really want to. The question is, how much do you want that love that will last a lifetime?
A beautiful soul with an average or less than the average body can have a long list of admirers. Because the love that lasts a lifetime will outlast our physical attractiveness for a long time.
The part of you that wants to share a life of love and passion until old age has to be what you will polish, much more than photographing your selfies.
Everyone has a pure heart, it only takes effort and willingness to put the past behind for the scars to heal rather than scatter and scare them in the next encounter.
Practicing this article will help you change so much that in no time you'll become so attractive that everyone you date will want to stay with you forever.