Why I left my wife?

Marriages today have a lot of recorded divorce rates more than in the old times. Perhaps many people have come to the assumption that marriage in itself is a contract that can be canceled by either or both partners anytime they deemed fit Ir when there is some slight disagreement between the duo. In many cultures and traditions, marriage is seen as a do-or-die affair, which means that you are not expected to leave your marriage no matter the harsh realities that befall you in the course of the marriage. For some women, marriage has been a place where they received numerous abuse, violence, and maltreatment from their husbands. In many developing countries where the laws favor men more than women, many men have turned their wives into something else as a result of incessant beatings. But should this act go on?

Marriage in every place has challenges which means that marriage might not be a jolly ride all through with your partners. Hence some couples opt for divorce when they see that they see that things are not going to work together for them both. Why divorces in marriage may be grounded on many reasons, it may be from the husband's angle or the wife's. Howbeit, Studying what causes divorce among couples can help a long way in saving a lot of marriages out there. After all, Insignificant things sometimes can cause separation among couples. I could remember the story of a friend of mine who left his wife for a flimsy reason, the reason being that his wife cooks late or doesn't cook at all for him. I was a little bewildered over that. I asked him some questions too and I was even amazed at the answers that he gave me. It was in the light of the discussion that I observed that his wife has been in the habit of not cooking since they have been dating but the guy doesn't count it a big deal then. He was hoping she would change once she married him. Alas, that went wrong.

I always suggest marrying not because of beauty alone but consider other factors too before you guys conclude to marry one another. Careful study of your partner during dating or courtship can save you both a lot of unnecessary headaches in the future.

Sometimes I surfed the internet to see many different stories of why men leave their wives. Some claimed infidelity which can be so heartbreaking for men especially men that are faithful to their wives. Some even divorced their wives because their wives are dirty!. Sometimes as a bachelor I fear and dread going into marriage because of the stories you hear every day. You see a man who loves his wife dearly and is always ready to do everything for her only for the wife to be caught cheating on her man, such is always painful. If you are probably better off yourself without anybody else, then getting married might not be a great option for you. Many unmarried people are doing quite well in life. Don't go into marriage with an unknown person.

Marriage spans through life and you don't want to spend your life with a stranger. Go for that person who loved and respects you and what you do to him or her too. Sometimes when things get hot between you too the love keeps you going. If you don't love your partner but get married to him or her because of other reasons you might regret the marriage. To be forewarned is to be forearmed.