What do you know about introverts 2

Have you ever had an introvert as friends? Can they be boring sometimes, or not socially active as you wanted them to be. I have seen many people I call friends or close ones do say I don't like going out, that I just prefer staying indoors all day. Sometimes they're right though it's not all day I stayed indoor. Many people thought I am probably proud because of my nature; which means that I don't usually talk to a lot of people just like most introverts do. Then, some people may interprete such habit in a wrong way, concluding that I'm probably a proud person, lol. Infact I can be the most humble person you ever meet.

Life as an introvert sometimes is not always something so easy. Friends will question you about why you are so quiet and not a talkative. Some introverts find themselves in a lot of pressure trying to adapt to other's interests and discarding their own personality. Eventually they hurt themselves, because they want to be like others who are outspoken and very popular.

As an introvert, I noticed that I prefer to putting my thoughts down to speaking or talking about it in words of mouth. I don't know if same applies for other introverts too. Basically I will rather preparing sending you a text message than picking my phone to call you. Calling people sometimes drains me and I feel uneasy. Introverts can be weird and sometimes it takes a lot to understand them and what they really want.

When considering public speaking or speech, introverts may come under a lot of pressure especially if they are shy too. It may not be an easy feat to achieve. All we know is that we have their brilliant words in our stomach but just don't know how to say it out. Sometimes I just imagine that people can actually read what's on my mind because no matter how much I presented those thoughts into words of mouth, it still doesn't sound adequate, it seems not enough to explain what I meant to say inwardly. I always wish I am more courageous and brave like my extroverts friends to air out my opinion.

For me speaking in public seems like a rocket science for me, difficult to understand. Verily I do envy people who speak eloquently and without flaws in public and especially among large gatherings.

Except an introvert initiate a conversation, they don't usually fancy long talks especially those that didn't interest them in any way. That's why sometimes introverts may hide from someone they know in public because they don't want to meet with them, some reasons may include trying to avoid unnecessary long talks and stuffs like that. Many people believe that because of the weird things introverts do that they may not actually fits into a society which is wrong. Introverts are as important as extroverts in a society. We are unique and shouldn't feel inferior to our fellow introverts.

How do you know you're an introvert?

1. You don't have large circle of friends. Only a small circle of friends who you hold very dear. Introverts don't make much friends like extroverts do.

2. You're not the one to raise up your hand at very questions being thrown out to the class by the teacher. You are probably contented knowing the answer and just don't want the attention to yourself.

3. You think best, do things best when you are alone by yourself and not mixing up with crowds.

What do you also know of introverts, let's discuss them.