Living alone yourself or living under your parents?

You will never know the cost of living in true liberty if you are dependent on somebody else. A dependant knows no cost of living in liberty without depending on someone else for support either financial or whatsoever. Likewise for as person who is not depending on someone else, living on his or her own means, you won't know how sweet sometimes to be supported or dependent on someone else.

As growing adults, some of us are questioned with whether to break free from the control of our parents and just stand alone. In all sincerity, thinking in this wise isn't big deal or something to be labeled bad. sometimes people reach the age of self awareness whereby they want to fully try to take responsibilities for their actions. Living in liberty or still depending on your parents all depends on you. The problem some people have is that they want the liberty life more without considering the costs of living such life. Living a free life entails that as a young adult you have a steady means of income that will help you to take care of yourself without anyone assistance.

From the little study I did, I realized that without thinking much, most people especially young adults prefer the free life to living under the control of their parents. This is so because they believed that while they are living freely, nobody will dictate for them and they can live as they wish. But one of the first thing to consider before considering the liberty life is to check the amount of money in your pocket. Ask yourself if you'd really scale through with that meagre amount of money. Do you have a steady source of income to sustain yourself? If no you can't make the choice of living free life yet. That is why you still see many grown up adults still living under their wings of their parents because they don't have the means to live alone.

Another thing to consider is your level of maturity. Some parents are even ready to let go of their children to living alone because their children possess some good level of maturity. If you are not matured fully, living alone from parents may pose a greater risks because of your immature behaviors.

What amaze me sometimes is that once in a while when the going get though, people under the auspices of their parents and are dependent on them wish they live a free life without depending on them. This may be so especially when they're pained with some of their parents' actions or other reasons, they imagine they won't have went through those unpleasant situations if they were alone. Yet it's not one way thing, sometimes things get hard for those living alone and living the liberty life. Once in a while they imagine things won't have become so hard as it's come to be if they are under their parents and depending on them. That's to explain that either life isn't the best. It all depends on the situation you find yourself.

If you fancy a life of independence, you must be ready to bear the costs and prove yourself. Living alone especially in a harsh economy is not rosy as you have to work extra hard. Life under your parents roof is not forever too especially if you are a male, you have to realize that life starts at the end of the comfort zone. Although sometimes in life we all need to be under someone like our parents to aid their own way of developing before moving out independently.