Life of an Introvert

We are all different when it comes to personality differences. By nature or nurture, some are known to be extroverted and outspoken. You see them every time and every where. Extroverts are not hard to notice among the crowds, unlike their introverts partners or colleagues. Sometimes nature or nurture depends on which influence our personality trait, in terms of whether we are introverted or extroverted. Many people gets unit baseless argument on which one is the best. The truth is no personality can be considered the best, whether introversion or extroversion. It all boils down to how best you make use of who you are to develop yourself and people around you.

For extroverts, they are people you possibly can't do without, they are the ones that you see most when you go to social gatherings or meetings. They are easily identifiable. Extroverts do everything in the open so it's possible to know many things about them. This is not so for introverts who deals in a secretive manner. They don't keep a lot of friends like the extroverts do. They don't want too much attraction to themselves in the public. They don't relate much with the social world like the extroverts do.

Introverts likes to be alone rather than walking the whole town in the midst of friends. They draw their energy from being alone with themselves or few people they feel close and connected to. Not all introverts are antisocial like most people think. There are still many introverts out there who have a good social life with others, it's just that they still prefer their own personal space and time above all things.

One thing I love more about introverted individuals is that they are always great listeners and observers. Introverts may be good for detective jobs. Because introverts are easy going and not lousy in nature, they can diligently seat down to study whoever they want to know about. They are always focused and determined when embarking on any work, since most of their motivation comes from the internal, that keeps them going amidst all odds.

THINGS YOU SHOULDN'T DO TO AN INTROVERTS.

1. DON'T DISRESPECT OR SHOUT AT THEM IN PUBLIC.

For some introverts, they will find it very embarrassing and ashamed to be embarrassed or disrespected by others in public. Introverts by nature always want to avoid large people or large social gathering. If you then decided to talk down on them using their weakness then it will really have a very bad effect on them. You can always settle and reconcile with your introverted friends over the disagreement between you both in private. Introverts like things involving them to be in private. So don't make the mistake if trying to embarrass or disrespect them in public, they may hate you forever.

2. DON'T EXPOSE THEIR SECRETS BECAUSE THEY OPENED TO YOU.

For an introvert to open to you and tell you his or her life secrets, it means you mean so much to him or her. Introverts only open up to people that seems close to them. Don't betray their trust in you by acting in an unintelligent manner. Extroverts may spill out their life stories to strangers without feeling any remorse, that's not so for introverts because it's not in their nature to talk anyhow. They're reserved as the same can be said to how they speak with others.

Do you know a thing about being an introvert too? You can share for more knowledge.