As the years go by, life becomes different. Things happen in other ways. And if there is an illness involved, we realize that what happens to us is even more arbitrary.

When we are young we surround ourselves with so many people we call friends and we have so many family members around us, but then life takes care of sifting through them and leaving only what works for us and what doesn't, is left behind.

Having friends is a blessed blessing from God. Having had the opportunity to have made great people who throughout life remain by our side in good times but even better in bad times.

It is said that a good friend is present in the worst circumstances such as poverty, conflicts, illness, and other situations, but what if this friend is also going through difficult situations because it is already the time of decadence ... then you see yourself alone because no one remembers that you are there and should have someone concerned to ask how you are and how you continue.

Life is a myriad of experiences and situations so strange that it is very far from the human mind to accept that things like this happen.

At the same moment that you feel so vulnerable, you have other people who are your loved ones going through similar or worse situations than the ones you are experiencing personally.

You find out that when you were bad your best friends were also bad. That none of them were able to communicate or know that you were going through bad situations because they were simply going through their own ordeals on the other side.

Things happen in life when they are meant to happen and it seems like a novel where we see things happen that are so unbelievable that in real life what happens is much more unbelievable than what happens in fiction.

The relationship of friendship cannot be discussed, when you have a friend it is because he has already been put in the spotlight and you just have to accompany him in those that arise either personally or in a symbolic way.

My own friends found out that I went through this situation of illness already when everything happened. They had no idea that I was going through such an unpleasant moment and today they call me to apologize and tell me that at the same time that I was sick they were sick too.

It sounds like science fiction but it is so, they were all in one bad state or another, but all at the same time. It seems unbelievable that life is so simple and so complicated at the same time.

I have learned not to take anything for granted until I know the true circumstances. And today I realize that my friends are there but they are also human and can present the same difficult situations that I go through on the same days and for the same amount of time.

We should not waste time in bitterness or bitterness and much less in making disparaging comments until we know the reasons why someone dear to us has not approached us in the most important moments of life and health.

Let's live happily and not fill ourselves with uncertainties and uncertain answers because life in its simplicity has very short answers for everything.

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I am @gertu13 from Venezuela to the world.