Start and End the Conversation with Good Questions
When we meet someone, it's normal to ask a question about their personal information such as name. Whether it's relatives, friends or new acquaintances, it's normal for us to ask questions about life.
When I was still working in a Company, there were a lot of people who I met, got along and bonded. Being an introvert is unfashionable, I have to hang out and make friends with them. Even Supervisors know how to get along and treat their workers as friends. Often asked questions about life, passions and much more. Many questions can be asked for a good conversation such as the following:
*Please read my personal answers.
Do you consider yourself to be an introvert or an extrovert? I am an introvert. I'm the type of person who doesn't like to talk to my neighbors if not important matters. I will only speak when I am being talked to, but I am not the one who starts the conversation. When there is a misunderstanding, just one explanation is enough, I don’t want to repeat. I don't want a fight, I don't want trouble, I want a quiet life. I don’t like parties, I like simplicity.
Where would you stay if you could go anywhere? I have long dreamed of staying in the woods, forests, or somewhere quiet place with lots of trees and plants. A place where my mind is at peace.
What is your greatest fear? To lose a loved one in life. I will get sick when it happens to me to lose a loved one. Just last month, my mother got sick, I thought I would never see her again. It's good that she survived. I can't wait to see her, we plan to go home to the province when the children are safe to travel.
Which of your family vacations is your favorite? We prefer to go by the river, the place where we chat, eat and play with little fish swimming, weird haha! simple place, quiet but fun.
If you had the power, what would you improve about yourself? I have nothing else to change about myself but my self -confidence. From my childhood until now that I have children, I still experience bullying. Honestly, it's worse now that I have children, I almost don't want to leave the house. I feel how small I am, how ugly I am, how weak I am. How do I change this? Help ...
What gets you really upset? Whenever someone lies and plasticizes. There is no need to lie, we all make mistakes and we can all change. It is better to live without aggravating others.
What inspires you to work hard? I, as a mother, have no other reason but my child. Honestly, they are all the reason why I am inspired. Not just in hard work, but in everything.
When you were younger, what did you want to be? Doctor. But all my dreams did not come true. Why? It's my fault, because I chose to work right away at the age of 16 rather than study. There are many reasons, but my mother is still right ... I'm sorry.
What do you want your child to be as he or she grows up? All their dreams come true. Improve their lives until they have their own families. I will let them make their decisions in life because I know their minds will be broader and they will be more matured. I am just here behind them, guiding and receiving advice from them.
What would you do if you had the freedom to do anything for a day? I repeat, I'm a full time housekeeper, a mom and a wife. I have nothing else to do but relax all day. I want to be alone in a quiet place and relax.
Are you a fan of or apprehensive about surprises? Why do you think that is? Yes! But with good surprises, I don't like negative surprises, haha!
Would you prefer play a game, see a relative, watch a movie, or read in the evening? See a relative and watching movies. Whatever the choices are, my relatives will always come first. The fun is different when we are with relatives, the laughter, so priceless!
What would your friends describe about you? They don't know me. I am the quietest of all friends. Make me happy, I'll be happy. Tell me a story, I will listen. Make me angry, I will be angry. Mess with me, get ready!
Who knows you more? My sisters (siblings)
It’s not bad to ask things to someone, we just want to get to know each other and have a good start and end a good conversations.
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