Let's think about it,

Someone who is close and affectionate to us may be doing this out of goodwill, or he may do this out of goodwill, gaining our trust and harboring bad thoughts. We won't know until he shows his true face.

Let's keep thinking,

A person who is seen as religious and believer may be seen as such, making the environment to have positive impressions about him. Because religion is one of the most important tools to camouflage itself in society. A person who performs his/her worships is easily accepted in religious societies no matter what religion he/she believes in.

Let's think from another angle,

A person who says he needs help, cannot meet his basic needs, and shows himself inadequate in meeting his human needs such as shelter and health, may be looking for an easy way to live without making any effort by earning an income from us. We cannot know the degree of neediness unless we do some extra research. Perhaps the feeling of being tricked can be uncomfortable.

Let's get out of the thinking and face the facts.

These may be hypothetical and unintentional thoughts. It's just good to be cautious. Each of us can be betrayed from time to time by the people we include in our lives, open our homes, share our secrets with, and see as friends. This betrayal can sometimes be material, sometimes spiritual. Sometimes it can cause permanent psychological effects.

Losing her lover or spouse to her best friend, losing all her savings to a relative, friend or someone she trusts with her own hands just because she needs them, are some examples that can be given to tell everyone about a secret she shares. I'm sure everyone has already created their own example at this point.

The first starting point that can cause all this is trust, and they hide themselves enough at the point of trust. So much so that gaining our trust is not something they will have too much trouble with. The people we love, respect and trust wait for the right ground for betrayal and take action at the right moment.

We can fix this with a short story I heard years ago.

• The snake-bred man saw that his beloved snake was no longer eating. No matter what he did, the snake, which reached 2 meters in length, would not eat. Wanting to find a cure for the situation, the man took his snake to the vet. He explained the situation to the vet and the vet asked him: "Does the snake hug you often, does it sleep next to you?" “Yes,” he replied. Understanding the situation, the vet continued: "Look, your snake isn't sick. It's getting ready to eat you, so it hugs you frequently to measure how much it needs to grow. And the reason it won't eat is to make room for you in its stomach."

As in this short story, while one party is sad about the point of the animal that he loves and feeds, the snake is in other accounts for him. We will all have such snakes in our lives. The important thing is that we notice early and take our own precautions. There are many types of betrayal. Betrayals are always on our doorstep and try to get in at the first opportunity. Although the truth always hurts, it is one of our strongest defensive blocks. Be realistic and take precautions.

Thank you for reading.