My Diary #04: Treating Myself

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Hello Everyone!!!

January 31,2022

Last day of this month and "Billings" is approaching. Bill for the electricity, water, cable, internet and so on. This was the hardest part of the person who shoulders all of it. I'm still single but I feels like I have my own family already. I can't blame my family because it's me who is the eldest and It's okay because I have a work were I can get to pay this all bills.

Sometimes I used to think and asked the air, is this the reason why until now I'm not yet married? My responsibility to my family is not yet over? I thought so.

But I won't question God about this. I know he has a reason why all of this is happening to me. I know there was a right time for all of that. So I just wait and let God decide my faith because he's the one who knows what's best for me.

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January 29, 2022

It's my rest day and I don't want my rest day to be just at home. So I asked my boyfriend were we gonna go to have a date? And he just replied me it's up to me. And so I message my cousins just to what's up. Then she said that she and her cousin which is also my friend that there going to have a picnic in one of the tourist spot here in our town. And I said I want to go with them and she replied sure.

[SOURCE OF IMAGE:](https://www.pinterest.ph/pin/130393351688310587/)

So I message my boyfriend again telling him that were go on a picnic with my cousin and friend. And he said okay. This is what I love the most with my boyfriend because he always supported me in every travel or decisions I make as long as it wouldn't hurt me. I am so blessed and grateful having him into my life.

So anyway now we have a place were we are going. I could treat myself for the whole tired week of work. Since we do have the destinations and it's still to early to go, I prepared first our breakfast. After we ate our breakfast I lay down back into my bed not to nap again but to be busy on my phone. It took until near lunch. So I stand up and prepare for our lunch.

We will be leaving in the afternoon because it's still so hot if we went there after lunch. Then my boyfriend arrived around 1 in the afternoon. He asked me if what time we will be leaving. I told him later if it's not so hot. So he went to sleep for a moment. And while he was sleeping my cousin and I had a conversation on the phone. She want me to prepare quickly so that if they passed by we are already ready.

And so there here. My cousin asked me, were we are going. And I said "you told me we will be having a picnic" but we don't have any food to be brought. And then I suggested to the place were I really wanted to go. We don't have to worry about the foods because there's a restaurant there. And then they agree with me.

So we travel almost half an hour. It's 8 km away from our town. But it's still belong on our municipality. It's a long ride but the place as we arrived there was so worth it. It was so beautiful. It's a farm. So lots of plants and trees are over there. The owner made the place so good. Upon entering you will pay half a dollar, it's for the maintenance of the said place. And of-course since it's pandemic every corner has a reminder to follow the safety protocols.

[SOURCE OF IMAGE:](https://www.tripadvisor.com.ph/Hotel_Review-g1469074-d15695144-Reviews-The_Log_House_Farm_Resort-Lipa_City_Batangas_Province_Calabarzon_Region_Luzon.html)

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Then we begun to roam around. Took a shot's every part of the farm that has a beautiful view. They have a human made arc covered with artificial flowers which is so beautiful during night because of the lights that is into it. Aside from the arc they have also a carousel were you can set and have a moment with your love one like your on your prenup photo shoot.

They have also a cottages were you can rest and have your meals or snacks that you've ordered in there restaurant. And for us since were done to roam and took shots we order a food and then ate it on one of the cottages there. And after that we went back home.



DENOUEMENT:

It's a tiring day but all of it was all worth it. Treating yourself is not that bad. We need that to unwind and to forget some problems that we have even just for a short period of time. A time that you don't need to worry about everything. You just relax and do whatever you want. Treating ourselves is like a stress free. Yeah you spend, but it's yours and you deserved it. So keep it up, it was a big help for yourself.

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That's all for now my dear read.cash family. I hope you like our trip now. Thank you always for passing by and reading my articles. Keep safe always too and God bless!!!

Lovelots,

@flordecar26

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Sounds like fun indeed :) Good for you!

I can relate to the bills. Our rent will be due next week goo lol!

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All of your sacrifices for your family soon will yield, a good thing you are able to relax and share your moment with your cousin since you both deserve it.

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2 years ago

Ganyan talaga pag eldest ka among the sibling may rreponsibity talaga na dapat eshoulder to younger sisterr and brothers and support financially into our family, kaya most eldest matagal natatagalann bago nakapag asawa kasi pay responsibilidad pa yung iba most esp. sa mga kapatid.

Nice din yung eh treat mo yung sarili mo lalo na oag kasama c Jowa hahah,😊

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I liked your story, sharing with your cousin and your boyfriend is priceless. Don't see it as an expense, see it as an investment in quality time for yourself, in mental health. In harmony with nature, the environment and loved ones. Take care of yourself.

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