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What a Woman Feels when Neglected

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Written by   434
3 months ago
Topics: Woman, Feelings, Blog

July 9, 2021
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In any relationship, whether marriage, family, or partners, there are aspects needed to be fulfilled to make the connection or the bond grows. And honestly speaking, as a married woman, being a mum and a spouse is very challenging in some ways especially when you feel you are neglected emotionally.

Probably, it's one of the things I resisted to happen.

Couples have emotional desires to be fulfilled, a little care matters a lot, and a simple kind gesture makes a huge impact on your partner. And even listening and paying attention is a must!

What if you’re being ignored? What we women feel when we’re ignored?

Being ignored is one of the most hurtful feelings anyone in a relationship could feel. I know you will agree with me, we don’t want to be disregarded right? As we people are very tender beings, especially women, are too emotional, when we're being neglected we will attain negative emotions right after.

If you’re a man who’s in a relationship, have you ever ignored your girlfriend’s feelings even for once? If not, you’re such a great man, but if yes, avoid doing such. We, ladies, hate not being listened to. I guess no one wants to undergo it.

And it’s a heavy feeling to see no one gives attention to on your side or with your feelings. And for me, it’s like an insult, being ignored especially when you’re still conversing. And it will leave a deep scar right inside that no one knows except the one who’s talking.

When a misunderstanding arises in couples, the power of listening is very crucial. To make things better, both sides must listen and acknowledge what went wrong and look for solutions together. But when no one dares to let off their egos, and no one wants to hear another, the relationship might weaken or break.

Communication is very important in the society and relationship needs good communication to build a better or even a great bond. And when emotional neglect happens more often, there’ll be effects that might affect the person who suffered from being neglected emotionally.

Look who's talking here, I’m not an expert about relationships though I am married and a mom our relationship sometimes struggles too.

When a woman feels her feelings were being avoided she will likely find it hard to express and convey her feelings and end up suffering from her heavy emotions alone. And truthfully, I’ve been through this, it was difficult and seems like a battle but the only one who’s with me as I. And when we have misunderstandings, I can’t assert my feelings directly and I ended up fighting with my emotions independently. Because if you feel like no one listens to you, you'll start to assume that your words won’t matter to them anymore so you’ll just let it pass and moved on.

Then after that, neglect will be developed into overthinking. Most women, not all though commonly, are over thinkers and honestly, it’s not a healthy feeling too. Since their opinions and feelings were neglected, overthinking will probably enter their messed-up minds. And mostly, the thoughts will be pessimistic. There comes an idea of giving up, self-harm, self-doubt, and devaluing self-worth.

When a woman’s feelings are not heard, she will suffer difficulty in trusting her feelings to someone, as she was not being listened to, she will be afraid to tell her honest impressions and feelings as she might end up being judged. This is when fear of being rejected comes in.

No one wants to be rejected and I know we all know how heavy it is to be rejected especially by someone that matters to us the most. What more for women who are staying at home? For the women who gave up their careers just to attend to the family their whole life?

No doubt many women find it hard to overcome stress and depression because I guess; only a few only heard their voices. Because of the fear that grows inside them, a fear to be neglected again. Because if your partner or your better half cares a lot for you, he will listen and show that he cares.

Women are very fragile, very sentimental, and they will become even more emotional after having a family. Working 24/7 without rest, without salary, commission, etc. but women are willing to give up everything, their pride, dreams, and careers just for the sake of the family she has made.  Believe me, a mother's love was bonded with her children from the day she gave birth until a lifetime, and a wife’s heart and care will be on her husband ‘til eternity.

So, when your wife, your girl wanted to tell you, listen. You might not recognize how important it is for her to tell you about what she’s going to say. You will never know her true feelings if you won’t try to hear her out. Especially when you have a wife, to tell you frankly, being at home isn’t easy as you guys think.

We aren’t slacking off the whole day, we don’t leave the living room untidy the whole time, you won’t see it but we have cleaned up the house a couple of times daily especially when there are naughty kids around.

So if your wife told you she’s tired, she is. If your lady told you she wants to rest, let her. Why am I saying these out of a sudden? Simply because these are the most common words a mother or a housewife complains to their man. And these words are mostly neglected.

Because some men thought their wives only putting up some dramas again and again, because they thought, women are just complaining about everything. But remember, there will be no complaints without any reasons unless you chose an immature brat to be your spouse.

Sure, no one is told to marry and have kids, but moms and wives are just humans. For goodness sake, we are not robots and can be rechargeable! We can’t just put off and put in new batteries to function again.

So as things aren’t that worst, start to listen and care for your woman. Your workmates, your games or phones, your friends mostly won’t be there on your worst, they’ll mostly present only in your happiness. But your wife will always be there, and often you neglect her presence because you’re too busy making money and making memories with your circle of colleagues. Never forget why you asked for her hand while you two were still dating.

Show her that you care, show her how much you love her, and be the man of your words. Listen, it's just the least you can do to help her find solace in your arms.

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totoo . Being neglected gives a bad feeling in a way na, do they really care about me? ganern. pero feeling ko sa isang relasyon dapat talaga open sa isa't isa and willing to undestand each other. parang give and take talaga. Sometimes di ko namamalayan na ganun din ko kay jowa ko kaya nakakaguilty kaya i'm trying to ask and change as well for us. Then pag ganun siya sa akin naku war ang mangyayari then di niya alam kung bat di ko siya pinapansin din pag okay na kami dun ko sasabihin kung bakit. hahahaha. moody kasi akong jowa

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3 months ago

The key is communication talaga. I always said to my husband na lagi akong pagod it is because I am showy then one time habang nakahiga kami tinanong ko Kung kamusta Yung araw nya at Alam mo Sabi nya sakin? Sa wakas tinanong mo din. Eto Yung tanong na hinihintay ko sayo e. Then naguilty ako bigla.

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User's avatar Yen
3 months ago

Hahaha yun kasi lagi lang din tayo eh yan din reklamo nang partner ko, di ko man lang daw sya tinatanong or minsan nagtatanong daw ako pero for the sake na tanong lang kulang sa care char 😂

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3 months ago

Oh diba hahahaha.

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User's avatar Yen
3 months ago

Yes! Women are more sensitive than men. But some men also are emotional but mostly are women.

Yes communication is the most important of a couples, partners. The time and attentions should be presence. Give an importance in your partner.

More articles and God bless.🙏

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3 months ago

Just as you said, no woman wants to be ignored. Women deserve love and care. Our emotions can be easily triggered by things we see/feel. Women always want more attention. And being ignored pisses is off.

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3 months ago

In all relationships, communication is always a good thing. Women love to be heard and taken into account. Be it by a husband, partner or boyfriend.

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3 months ago

That's absolutely true! We can actually say this since we are women. 😊

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3 months ago

I do not know girls feeling when they got ignored or your article able to explain it .. Again no matter this about girl or boy the feeling of getting ignoring is same which i understand when i was at high school grade .. leave it..

As like you said about understanding but this do not happen on 70% family or relationship and ever where women get neglected and you can not solve this issue too ever .. Because this keep happening since human born.

Hope you can control and every one control their emotion!

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3 months ago

I agree, at the end of the day, everyone is entitled to their feelings on how they control and react to a certain situation. 🙂

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3 months ago

true this is why do not go too much deep with your problem like i did and later regret!

Cheers!

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3 months ago

Wow. So full of feelings and truth. I hope all the guilty guys (and probably women who are like these types of guys) would read this and be enlightened. Peopl have limits, and it is true. Feeling of being ignored is one of the worst feelings ever. it affects our confidence to share things again.

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3 months ago

Indeed. We all have our limits and still everyone needs to be heard, not only just women but everyone. But as women are more vocal and showy than men are, women are mostly ignored more. 🙂

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3 months ago

Sad reality. :(

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3 months ago

If I am being ignored... tatahimik lng ako madam.. am not really a person na masalita or vent out my feelings.. kinikimkim ko nlng ang aking emotions.. pero nakakastress yun kc hndi mawala sa isip.. kpg maipon...nkaka depress

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3 months ago

Ay ganyan na gnyan din ako, Jane. At pag di ko na keri ang bigat, sinusulat ko tlga lahat ng hinanakit ko. Kasi mahirap pag wala kang mapagsabihan, takot din tlga ako mamisunderstood ng iba kaya kinikimkim ko nlng din. Pero kahit sa totoo mabigat sa pakiramdam, at tlgang nakakadepress

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3 months ago

Minsan kpg puno na.. sasabog nlng.. kya iiyak nlng. Saklap 😅

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3 months ago

Ay true, proven and tested yan. 😅😁

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