People who are the best to be with

Upon reading the title do you have a particular person in mind?

Probably you're thinking about your good friends, your lover or your family. No question about that, they're truly considered as people who are best to be within our life. We people need someone beside us through hard times and the good. I do believe that we people need connections and companions in life to live happily and healthily. Also, to be social and socialize is a common part of human nature, that's so normal to us humans. Having social support in life can make us feel better and more active in life.

Living in this imperfect world, we shouldn't expect to receive and meet perfect persons to come across us. We live in a society where doubts, comparisons, shaming, and judgments can find us easily. But, we can't deny the fact that this world is also full of good people with decent intentions. Those people are genuinely precious. People who are pure and with good intentions with them that will bring a bright vibe to your life. These individuals will contribute to you positively.

People who are the best to be with

We always have the right to choose someone who we want to be a part of our life. It depends on our preferences on how these people will impact us. Since we're born to socialize, I'm considering this list of people who are worthy to be within life.

The Motivator

I consider myself lucky to meet people whom I considered my “motivators” in life. These people are the ones who inspire me to do something and make me believe in my capabilities and skills. And to be honest, I found lots of motivators here on this platform. They're ready to inspire people and don't have to brag about their achievements. Not everyone can motivate you to do something different or stick with your goals, some are just showing off their attainments for their satisfaction. So you're lucky if you've met a motivator who's giving you words of encouragement and believes in your potentials and abilities as a person.

Just like here at read.cash where you can see the tip box in each article you made. Have you read the word written when someone has given you tips?

“Encourage the author to write more”

They are our motivators here on this platform. Be thankful if you received even a $0.01 tip from somebody. That little tip is to give you a bit of motivation and encouragement to continue your writings.

The Emphatizer

This is someone willing to listen not just to listen, but who's willing to truly hear your thoughts and feelings. They'll listen without judging you, instead, they are putting themselves in your shoe. Do you have now someone in your mind, whom you can consider your emphatizer? A person with whom you can connect emotionally and trust deeply. It's truly hard to find a person who's willing to understand you no matter what situation you're in. Someone who will cost you no harm, instead give his/her empathy with your situation. Consider yourself fortunate if you found that person beside you. That's a few chances to meet someone with decent motives without criticizing or judging you. They're always there for you through the good, the bad, and the ugly.

Brutally Honest

They are the persons who will give you straight to the point comments, yet, those comments are for your growth. They'll provide authentic feedback and does not do some sugar coating in giving his/her opinions. They are giving authentic or factual comments and statements for you to realize something. To be honest, I assume to be this kind of person, most especially in my cousin. She often tells her dilemmas with me, personal and other stuff. And I always give her my honest viewpoints but in a nicer way. I don't want her to misunderstood or misinterpret the words I'm uttering. I've encountered some of these personalities, and honestly, I like this kind of approach. They are helpful in a way you come to realize things and see things clearer. It's better to receive honest feedback than impressions full of lies.

The Challenger

We all need this, a person who will push you to get out of your comfort zone.

Why not try this?

You are great! See it for yourself.

They are more of a motivator, they give advice that strikes you to think differently, which often leads to better decisions. These people will teach you not only to appreciate your capabilities but to make use of it. They push you to make a move about something that they believe you're good at and definitely can achieve. Have you seen your challenger today?

The Accountability Partner

An accountability partner will help you to attach with your commitments. They will keep you on track, about your progress and help in improving your development. These people with this kind of personality are someone who is more disciplined and can help you breakdown your goals in a workable and attainable way. Also, you'll receive an honest response from them too that's the real accountability partner can do aside from tracing your growth. Also, he/she understands your goal and will help you to in what you need to progress.

The Comedian

Life would be lighter when you share some laughter with someone else. That's why we need in life our comedians. Stressors are just everywhere, so find someone that brings genuine happiness to your life, and the time you spend together be filled with laughter. I also consider myself a comedian in the family. Every time we have a small family moment, I always share some good laughs with them. I believe that laughter is good for our overall health, and a day with good laughter is a day well spent. It's always good to find someone who laughs with you through the bad times you've been facing. Have that special one who shares the same humor with you, have good laughs and fun moments together.

The Cheerleader

I guess you will agree with this, we all need this “one big fan” of us, who's always there ready to cheer us up, and never failed to believe in our talents. Truthfully speaking, I've found my cheerleaders! And they helped me a lot to accept myself, my flaws, my weaknesses, and my strength. No matter how down you are, they're always there to support you no matter what. They are like sunshine they'll bring with them some light into your life. To give you courage, hope, and a grateful heart full of love and appreciation.

We human beings need someone in life, even not in terms of love, but of friendship. We need a companion, someone to listen, understand, give us advice, or cheer us up. People need other people to live happier and have meaningful life. We need to socialize to grow, we need to acknowledge that we're not living alone in this world. Be wise in choosing the people to let in your life. Have a good and nice network of people around you. You may choose the wrong person but then will surely find the right one in the end.

Those people who are best to be with will surely make your journey in life a remarkable one and with purpose. If you can't find the best, you can always be that “best person to be with” for others. It's your choice.

Written by: @eommaZel 🥀✍🏻

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