How can i boost my confidence?

30 46
Avatar for dyemi
Written by
4 years ago

Since i've posted an article entitled with "Do i hate the way i look"i decided to do an article that connected to it and it becomes "HOW CAN I BOOST MY CONFIDENCE?"So i want you to read this to be able to boost your confidence in a healthy way.

Some of the youths struggle with uncertainties about their appearance and their abilities.I,myself as well don't know how to boost confidence.But our app library helped me a lot(click this).They are concious about their looks.They say that their imperfections and flaws makes them feel down and they're scared that they might look a looser.

But here are the CONFIDENCE BOOSTER that might help you to boost your self confidence

Give of yourself:

When you help others, you also help yourself. How?When you give them a cup of water,you'll recieve a cup of water in return."Generosity will be rewarded"there’s no denying that your quality as a well being soars when you help others.Giving love and care to others made you realize that you need to stop thinking about yourself but to start thinking about others.It's not bad to think about yourself,but if you crossed the line to the point that you don't literally care them,it means you're being swallowed up by love for yourself.Don’t help others because you're expecting that they help ypu in return.Help them with a spring to heart and you'll feel no amout of happiness.

photo from unplash

Make a Good Friends:

Make a good friends that will be a good and positive influence to you.A friends that will always show care to you and make you feel valuable.Don't try to fit in a circle of friends using your not real persona just to impress them,it will only make you feel degraded and being used.Instead,you need to express who really you are and you'll see true friends wouldn't let you down and will always stay by yourside even you show to them your true colors.Find a friends that will help you to boost you confidence.

photo from unplash

Bounce back from your mistakes:

"Sometimes low self esteem results when we compare our weakness to anothers strength"In what we say,what we do and even on our mind we always make mistakes.We can't avoid to make mistakes,but don't use our imperfections to do or commit a sin. Tolerating a wrong doings might take you away from god.

photo from unplash

We all know that "God is greater than our hearts"it means,he can see our value that we don't see to ourselves.He knows that we are worth it and our flaws didn't blind him to see our value.He always treasure us.

•••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••

That's all for today,and i hope it helped you a lot to boost you confidence.Stay hydrated and stay safe!❤️Thank you for reading!🤗

15
$ 0.01
$ 0.01 from @chelout
Sponsors of dyemi
empty
empty
empty
Avatar for dyemi
Written by
4 years ago

Comments

I love it. Very well said,you really so smart,nung ako nasa edad mo ngayon puro crush2x lang alam ko..hahaha..but you,your so intelligent and like matured kung mag.isip. and the way you deliver your content very well..keep it up..your brighter future awaits 😍

$ 0.00
4 years ago

wow ateee i'm so flattered naman huhu😭❤️May crush din naman ako haha siguro para sakin talaga inspiration yung crush hindi tulad nung iba na achuchu love blablah haha focus muna sa studies🥰Thank you for this comment and for the upvote ate!❤️I really appreciate it🤗

$ 0.00
4 years ago

Your most welcome. You deserve an upvote..Im Looking forward for more from you😊

$ 0.00
4 years ago

Galing mo talaga bhiee 🙂👍👍 Thanks for this. I think I'll be able to bring back my confidence again cause of this. It's really helpful 😗

$ 0.00
4 years ago

ay di pa ba bhi3 sagad confidence mo?

$ 0.00
4 years ago

duh. Grabe ka ha. Onti lang talaga confidence ko sa lagay na to hihi

$ 0.00
4 years ago

Everyone Struggles With Trusting in Their Abilities ·Stop Comparing Yourself to Others, be hyper honest with yourself , with these your self confidence will be boosted... Well written dear

$ 0.00
4 years ago

Thank you for appreciation 🤗❤️Stay safe dear🤗

$ 0.00
4 years ago

Good morning. Sometimes we really can’t help but compare our weakness to the strength of others. Why don't we try to accept this as a challenge to ourselves? I think, sometimes we have to be competitive. Maybe that way we can raise our self-confidence. That's just my opinion. 🙂

$ 0.00
4 years ago

We need to focus on our own strength.We all have flaws and it's okay to be aware of that.Comparing yourself to others wouldn't make you feel happy.Discovering our assets/strengths would be the way to break free on our negative self image🤗I appreciate your opinion and i'm glad you share it here🥰Thank you @dhona019

$ 0.00
4 years ago

yes i agree. we also need to know and accept our weaknesses. so that we know how we can cover it with our abilities and capabilities. you are welcome dear.

$ 0.00
4 years ago

coat our weakness with our talents and positive qualities🤗

$ 0.00
4 years ago

Trumpet your own successes It's OK to let people know when you get a win, at least in small doses. That's not normally true with friends or spouses in daily life, because it sounds like bragging. Yet, you can build your own confidence by pointing out, in a matter-of-fact way, that you were the one who accomplished something for the company. It makes you more confident because you get into the habit of self-rewards and self-acknowledgement.

Tell people you will finish the task Confidence often starts when you state your intentions. Let people know you will finish an assigned task at work--and then go ahead and finish the task. By voicing your goals to everyone, you gain confidence because you are holding yourself accountable. Speaking it out loud helps you build credibility with others in the office and gain more respect. Note that a confidence killer can also happen if you don't finish the work.

Turn personal attacks into a change agent It happens to everyone. Personal attacks are meant to push you down and make you lose confidence. Don't let that happen. If you get attacked personally, dismiss any anger or resentment behind it and look for how you can change and grow. It works. If someone attacks you and says you need to speak up at meetings, accept the feedback. Speak more. The process of growing when you hear negative comments is what can build confidence.

Speak your mind I'm not recommending you avoid having a filter for what you say at meetings and just chime in with whatever comes to your mind. Yet, a lack of confidence is often a bottleneck that keeps you from saying what you really think. Uncork that confidence blocker. By stating your view in a meeting, you are building confidence because at least you can see the reactions to your viewpoint and adjust as needed.

Train yourself Personal training helps build confidence because it goes right to the source of the problem. You might feel ill-equipped at work and hesitant because you don't have the proper training. Fortunately, that's easy to correct. Find online courses in your field or go to a seminar and start growing in your capabilities to counteract any feelings of inadequacy.

Increase your knowledge It might seem obvious, but you can also build confidence by learning more. Read more books, watch more TED talks, attend more seminars. It's easy to go overboard, and spouting your knowledge too often can be a confidence killer when people who have greater knowledge on the subject start debating with you, but knowing what to do about a complex issue or problem can help you gain confidence. Confidence grows when you act on what you know

$ 0.00
4 years ago

You really took an effort to made that comment and i'm flattered in that🥰Thank you for stating your opinion about this.Your comment is too long but worth reading🤗Appreciated much

$ 0.00
4 years ago

thank you very much for appreciating good afternoon

$ 0.00
4 years ago

Yeii very good yan! Dapat at a young age matuto na talaga magkaroon na ng "i love myself" mentality para mas maboost mo pa yung confidence mo 🔥🔥 Keep it up deer! 😊😊😊😊

$ 0.00
4 years ago

bat parang flushteak?HAHHAHAHAHAHAH charot namiss kita ateee yeyeyeye thank youuu!❤️🥰

$ 0.00
4 years ago

napilitan lang ako eh dagdag points dinHAHAHAHAH CHAROTT mitthyuu bb deAr

$ 0.00
4 years ago

ay meganon?awts gege🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

$ 0.00
4 years ago

hehehe emot3ra yern?? jkjk lang tologo sheneol

$ 0.00
4 years ago

mukha ba meng nakikipagjokejoke?!?!?!!😏😏😏👎👎👎

$ 0.00
4 years ago

ayy sheryus yern? di bagay mukha ka pa namang joke na nabubuhay ahahahha chos labyu mwaps

$ 0.00
4 years ago

sapul ako don a HHAHAHAHAHHAHA y ka naman ganyan grrr

$ 0.00
4 years ago

Yieee ang galing galing naman @dyemi 😍 👏🏻 Ang ganda ng pagkakasulat pero bakit kaya may nag downvote? 🤔

$ 0.00
4 years ago

sinoo nag downvote huhu baka ikaw man lang ha HAHHAHAHAHA plug mo na'ko ateee muah gamsahamnida😳❤️

$ 0.00
4 years ago

Waaah edit mo to haha yung pangalan ko wag mong ilagay dito @dyemi ka. Ako nga nakapansin na may nagdownvite kasi pag open ko nung article mo sa notification ko zero yung thumbs up.

Sige soon hahaha

$ 0.00
4 years ago

ayaw mo bang madiscover ate sc?HHAHAHAHAHHAA bat soon pa?🙂

$ 0.00
4 years ago

I'm working on something kasi right now haha. And i want to check that you're good before kita iplug para naman di ako mapahiya mag suggest hahahahaha joke.

$ 0.00
4 years ago

grabe naman sa mapahiya aray ate sc you're hurting m3h😦😦😦😭😭😭😭😭banned ka na dito sa baranggay namen🙂🙂🙂🙂

$ 0.00
4 years ago

Joke lang hahhaah I'll do it basta wag mo kong ipressure ghorl 😂 Nakalimutan ko kasi yung username mo last time. Kahapon ko lang or kanina yata nakita kay bbang. I'll promote the two of you. Don't worry.

$ 0.00
4 years ago